Me and my boyfriend been together for almost 2 years. We can wait a year to get married. But he can at least ask me. or am i moving to fast for marriage?
2006-06-08 16:26:57 · 9 answers · asked by k1ss_m3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I can honestly say that I do not feel as if there is a perfect time frame that someone should look at when it comes to marriage. It all depends on the two people that it deals with. If both are ready to commit to marriage then it is the right time and not before.
2006-06-08 16:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by student 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how old you are. 2 years together is definitely not too soon to think about marriage. but age does factor in, especially if the two of you are in one of your first serious relationships, you might lack some, not really experience, but you dont know what else would be out there for you. and getting married young, sometimes ends up bad, because you werent ready to settle down. some people say that being married is no different anyway..but it is. its a big step, how long the 2 of u are together doesnt matter, its how u 2 get along and if you truly love eachother and if you can see yourself married, because not all that comes with marriage can be awesome, like debt and money issues. be prepared is my advice, dont rush.
2006-06-08 16:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by loveboatcaptain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOnt do it too soon.......after 2 years you think you know your partner HEy its not just the women that change after those miserable 2 words......Who needs to get married??? Why the rush ....be a statistic...and just have a baby daddy! Gotta love that!
2006-06-08 16:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this isn't too soon! I've been Married for Eighteen years after being engaged within the first year.
2006-06-08 16:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should wait until he at least asks. Don't pressure him in any way, because that might scare him away. Not really sure if you should talk to him about your wants and your feeling about getting married. Guys are so complicated.
2006-06-08 16:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_bella06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having sex then I say get married right away. You have a responsibility to God to not sin against Him. Get your life in order and give your lives to Jesus.
2006-06-08 16:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess it would depend on your ages and how much in love you both were but marriage is something to be taken serious so make sure you know that it is what you want before you make that decision
2006-06-08 16:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by just2bme28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the relationship... my "rule" is no less than two years... so it's a possibility.
2006-06-08 16:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personaly think u guys are ready. u 2 should talk about it and see what he says. and hopefully he'll pop out the question in no time!
2006-06-08 16:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋