2006-06-08 16:16:35 · 16 answers · asked by Pioneer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask yourself these questions....
Do you have a "gut feeling" that you can't shake?
Is your spouse working longer hours than usual?
Have you noticed new phone numbers showing up recurrently on your spouse's pager, cell phone bill or caller ID?
Have you been recieving recurrent hang up phone calls?
Has your spouse become more concerned with appearance, such as new grooming habits or new exercise programs?
Does your spouse start fights and then leave for long periods of time?
Does your spouse look for reasons to be displeased with you and-or the whole family?
Does your spouse tell you they need more "space" or "time" to figure things out?
Is there a change in sexual drive, such as more OR less sex than usual or unusual requests?
Is your spouse being less responsible than usual, such as ignoring household duties or avoiding family activities?
Does your spouse become defensive or aloof when asked to account for their whereabouts or spending?
Has your spouse become a master at blame shifting when issues arrise with home-finances-children-marriage?
Has your spouse made an opposite sex friend that they talk about or spend alot of time with?
(It is not uncommon for the cheater to try to prompt a friendship between their spouse and the 3rd party)
I see this type of thing just about everyday, and if you decide to hire a PI, I would find one that uses the GPS tracking system, this way there is no way in hell he can lie about his where abouts. Just a word of advise, make sure you hire someone that has some experience in the investigative field and with the GPS tracking system. Then after you have proof (if in deed he is cheating) file for divorce......
2006-06-08 16:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by debbienws 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest (but also most expensive) is to hire a Private Investigator, or have him put through a lie detector test. Usually what you can do is simply go through records of where he's been calling frequently on the cellular or home phone. The most obvious way of figuring out he's cheating is if he smells of another woman's perfume. If he is cheating, the answer is quite simple, really. Divorce him. He will not be worth keeping around if he is cheating on you, no matter what the circumstances. No woman deserves to be cheated on. But that said, if you distrust him enough to think that he might be cheating, is it possible he may think the same of you? Just throwing that out there.
2006-06-08 16:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a digital tape recorder under the dash board of his vehicle. Make sure it is close enough to catch talking but up far enough and secured so that it won't fall out.
You can get a decent one for $20 with 12 hour of recording time.
If he is then you need to decide whether you can live with that for the rest of the marrage. Then confront him with your decision.
If it is to work things out be stern with him.
Forgiving too easy will only make him think he can get away with it again.
Good Luck!
2006-06-08 16:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by lovingfeathers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is. Hire a private detective. If you have time pretend to go away for the weekend with some friends but instead follow him or have friends help you follow him and make sure no women are hanging out with him. Divorce him if he is and he wont stop. Get checked for STDs!
2006-06-08 16:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow him when he leaves the house. If you find him cheating run after him with a whip....
What do you do if he's cheating.
CHEAT ON HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you don't won't too lie and say you did!
Then years later you can tell him you made the whole thing up!
2006-06-08 16:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His actions would not remain normal and his visits or meetings would be untraceable, money would be spent without any reason. What to do part is difficult, you have to decide whether you would like to keep the relationship or not.
2006-06-08 16:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by kalabalu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put hidden cameras in your house or whever to spy on him with , hire a private investigator, orask one of ur friends he hasnt met yet to keep a eye on him aka spy on him that or you can ask the phone company for his phone records and if the same number is on there multiple times you might wanna find out who that number belongs to if you find out he is divorce him
2006-06-08 16:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Place cameras around your home to videotape your husband's activities then confront him with your evidence on a talk show.
2006-06-08 16:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu may have to hire a private detective.
Once you have confirmation of his infidelity, you may wish to consider a divorce. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
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2006-06-15 07:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋