emotionally it will cost you the rest of your life !! It may not be done right,as many are...and you could have scaring which later on will cause you to have a miscarriage or tough time carrying a full term baby....
Financially...Planned Parenthood (oxymoron !!!) will love to do one for free as they can sell the fetus to labs for experiements,colleges for students to disect (cats,pigs & bunnies.... are considered inhuman now to do ). They make a large profit off a fetus....they can sell the body parts or the whole body....yes BODY as in HUMAN BABY !!!Plus they get grants from the government,which we all pay for,weather we like it or not.
There are many couples in the USA who would love to adopt an unwanted baby...but due to aborton clinics,the numbers are low,so most end up with an older child.
You have some serious thinking to do BEFORE you have an abortion...they are not as safe as people would like to think...done wrong & you can bleed to death (since they send you right out after....it's a form of invasion surgery)get a streph infections from poorly sterilized instruments (the warmer climates have a higher rate of it,due to humidity).
You will always remember no matter what people say,that YOU alone,choice to kill your baby,everything done during the abortion and wonder what your baby would've looked like or grown up to be. They could've been the one who had the cure to AIDS,HIV,Cancer,etc.
It is not a Consitution Right as many think...just a ruling from one judge years ago....and the lady who won the case now is trying hard to get the rulling over truned as she has suffered with all the guilt for years....
Why is it ok for a Mom to have an abortion,yet is it murder if she doesn't seek medical help & the baby dies ???
At 5 days after conception the baby had a heartbeat....proving it is a living being...
After 4 miscarriages,which take a toll of the body & emotions.I fianlly caried my son for more than 2 months,like the other who didn't make it...detached placenta,from scarring of my uterus.....abortion related.
I had a premie,13 weeks early....2 weeks before he was born,I was hospitalized due to a leak in the amiotic sack...they wanted me to fly to NY where it's legal to kill a baby at this stage of pregnancy...(they dialte you,then pull the baby down into the birth canal...stick a sharp instrument into its neck,into the brain to kill it,then pull it out the rest of the way,)..I refused....they said it would be born with many major medical problems...a burden on MY life to deal with...and wouldn't feel anything as it wasn't really a baby yet..
He was born with minor medical problems he overcame...felt every needle they stuck him with,smiled,cooed,moved and everything a full term baby does..he wasn't fully developed in some ways,but within 2 weeks,as we watched ,he developed before our eyes..
Now a healthy,smart,happy ,kind 10 year old....who's touched many lives & hearts....can't imagine life without him...
2006-06-08 17:49:18
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answered by justnanous 4
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Don't get an abortion. Have the baby and give it to the hospital or some kind of adoption center. They won't ask any questions.
2006-06-08 16:21:48
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answered by Meeshell 3
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Dont do it,,, My best friend in high school had one and was emotionally distraught for some time after. She went with her mom to a reputable place and told me how she fell out of her bed on to the floor while recovering and no one found her for 15 min. Protestors shouted and called her a murderer. She cried alot and when she got pregnant again a few yrs later she kept it. Its not worth it, give it up for adoption the baby didnt do anything wrong.
2006-06-09 19:42:13
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answered by AngelsnDragons 3
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It depends on your location, how far along you are, what exact procedue you have done, you choice of pain relief, etc. I think the national range is 350.00 to 1000.00 I am sure you can find cheaper or more expensive. If you are having trouble with money, call planned parenthood. They may be able to help you out or refer you to someone who can.
**note to other posters, please do not preach t this person. She is not asking for advice on whether she should have it or not. She does not need to be given a hard time. Please be supportive or just don't answer.**
2006-06-08 16:20:00
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answered by Chelle 3
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Too much! It's a price you'll pay for the rest of your life.
There are better options. Please go to the following website:
http://www.gargaro.com/abortion/stories.html
Just one of many sites that can give you insight into what you might have to live with for the rest of your life...
2006-06-08 16:22:19
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answered by Cinna 2
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$400-$700
While it is a good idea to look at this issue from all points of view, do not let others preach what they DO NOT know for themselves. Abortion is a personal choice, your choice. NOT THEIRS. And anyone who tries to tell you what to do with YOUR body, has absolutely no business to do so. While everyone is entitled to their own opinion, so are you, and you also are entitled to your own choice.
2006-06-08 17:28:34
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answered by lovehavok 4
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It is usually around 450.00 to 500.00,it depends on how far along you are,and where you go to have it done.you know,there is adoption too.If you do decide to get the abortion,make sure you have some sort of counseling afterwards,it could affect your mental health more than you know,just belive me!!!!!
2006-06-08 16:21:10
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answered by Anonymous
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there are hundreds of thousands of children in foster care who will never have a loving family....they will never have a mother or a father and they will live there until they are 18....most become homeless or law breakers. Don't judge her for making a decision. These days you can fight both sides of this argument!
2006-06-08 16:46:23
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answered by Seerah327 3
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The mental and emotional cost is way higher than the $!
2006-06-08 16:24:44
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answered by Suzanne 5
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the cost is one innocent human life, and possibly another not so innocnet life. only God will decide. but why take the chance the risk isnt worth it.
2006-06-11 09:54:22
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answered by mxlj 5
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