I don't think my friends like me, and this hurts so bad. i don't know why, but i feel that if i lose weight they will like me more b/c i've changed. i'm not smart enough, not pretty enough, not fun enough..i'm just not enough for anyone. My question is...how do i fit in..or at least pretend to fit in? or How can i change me? any tips on losing weight or anyway to deal with this just let me know.
2006-06-08 16:12:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
jsut chose new friends and go for walk
let me tell you if you will stay alone you wil be better off then having these kind of friends
2006-06-15 13:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by prlnr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you should change is your friends. If their friendship is based on how you look, how smart you are, how much entertainment you can add to their life, then these people will never be happy with anyone. There is only 1 of you in this whole wide world. There are numerous people that you probably haven't met yet, that is looking for you. Not someone like you, but the original you. Stay true to yourself. If you think there is a better you underneath, then its your decision to bring her out. In today's time unique is almost a cliche. Everyone wants, the look, the brains, the fun,......its like the world mass produces one type and those that dare to be different, and be the real person they are, will have the real life.
2006-06-08 23:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont change for your supposed friends change for you and if you wanna lose wieght great but do it for urself and not them
2006-06-08 23:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋