My husband won't work, won't watch the kids, and asks me for money all the time. What should I do?

Answer 1

Ask yourself the Big Question: "Am I better off with him or without him?"

Your answer dictates your next course of action.

Answer 2

It hard to get rid someone you love and grown with. I know it wasn't always that way. But look focus on your self and your kids. Don't wash his cloths don't fix his plate. You and the kid do something every time you get paid. Put $25.00 or $65.00 away overtime you get paid somewhere he want find it so when you get feed up you Can make a move sweet heart . You can do bad by yourself I know be tired and want to relax. But take care of you and those kids first. Your thang tell him you don't have any money you have to pay all the bill act like some of the bills are behind an that's where all your money went.

Answer 3

you don't even have a husband but a leech get a new husband i hope you didn't ask this question just to get answer you won't put into action because i am remmarried and not wasting my life anymore life is to short and don't let your child or children hold you back as did i you'll only waste more time look at it this way when you think they need him what they need is a good example but the longer your with him the less chance you'll have to give that to them and no example is better than bad plus your happiness is very important to your children since it will make you a better mom Godbless you no matter what your case is though!

Answer 4

Uh ya ever hear about divorce? As long as you tolerate and condone this behavior, THAT IS ALL YOU ARE GONNA GET..

Would you let your Brother or sister, or Mom or Dad or cousin do you the way he does? then why would you take it from him?
Obviously you are carrying the load anyway. One less older man child on your shoulders would be a blessing..

I bet ya if he went home to MOM and Dad he would find a job real fast..

You need to cut those apron strings and concentrate on raising your children. What kind of example are you and HE showing them?

Answer 5

Throw his lazy *** out and stop giving him money. Tell him at the next month's I. W. W. (I Won't Work) club meeting he can whine to the other members and they can give him sympathy and take him in. People like him are a dime a dozen on the street corner.

Answer 6

ok just come down just tell him to get his lazey *** off the couch start helping around the house and with the kids the kids just dont need a mom they need a dad to. and if that dosent work just give him a newspaper and say look for a job or you will have to leave.

Answer 7

You got what you wanted because no one made you marry him. So either leave him or watch the kids yourself and give him as much money as he ask for and be happy you got what you want.

Answer 8

Either put your foot down and tell him to get a job and help with the kids or Divorce him. Why have him around if he does not contribute

Answer 9

Wow sounds like you have found a deadbeat guy. I would talk to him and tell him that a marriage is a two person job. What are you getting from this relationship? Maybe it is time to find someone new.

Answer 10

since you wear the pants in the house then set your rules down and if he don't like them then he can hit the rode. your child should not be around with such a bad example. let him know your not putting up with his crap anymore. also the longer he leaches on you the bigger the hole is going to get on the couch.lol

Answer 11

Tell him he can't have any money until he does some chores and work around the house. Give him ultimatum. No work no live here.