How is it that people can assume a person must be abusive because they were molested as children? My story...?

Question

I was molested as a child, and I have been the best full-time loving and caring mother there ever was, but when I filed my divorce, my ex got a lawyer and tried to say that I was abusive and had all kinds of problems since I had been molested, etc, and made up horrible, horrible lies about me. And... since I was so exausted from fighting him during our marriage, trying counseling, etc. I had no strength left to fight him, and guess what he took my kids, even though he refused to pay for any financial obligations during our marriage such as food, clothing, doctor visits, school needs, etc. He was very controling during our marriage, hid all financial proof of income or savings. AND I had previously filed 2 restraining orders on him. It was all I could do to leave that creep, but because I had been molested, the courts BELIEVED his lies over all of his crap. I have never did drugs, drank, cheated, etc,
I am still in shock and am only now getting my chance at possibly getting my kids back

Answer 1

Only ignorant people judge others on things that they can not help. Keep fighting for your kids.