Hey everyone
I was dating a guy (non american) who told me he was single and later confessed he was married. He says no one knows he is married. Why do you think this would be? He apparently married his wife in his home country. I broke up with him, but curious as to why he tells no one and wants no one in the US to know? Seems really shady.
2006-06-08 16:06:12 · 7 answers · asked by yellie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ya I know thanks guys/girls.
It sucks too bc he got me to have strong feelings for him, but I guess in the end I was loving someone who did not exist. Ive just never had someone lie about something so important. Ya I still wonder as to why not even his work knows he is married. Sucks, I am slowly losing faith in guys:(
2006-06-08 16:15:08 · update #1
hey jono
yes he said they were separated, but im not even sure I believe him. Anyways thanks for the advice everyone, hope I can forget about him (though its not easy) and perhaps there is a nice guy out there for me.
2006-06-08 16:28:40 · update #2
FACT: he lied and now the trust is broken!
It will never be the same
2006-06-08 16:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has a wife and a lot of kids back home --- he wanted to see what its like to be single in the USA and play around.
Keep yourself focused, he was the bad guy ---not all guys should be labeled bad - just the ones who are that way and don't change.
2006-06-08 23:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out if he is planning on sending for his wife.
If he isn't then he may be thinking that he can just forget about her with no consiquences because he is in another country.
If he becomes a legal citizen of the US and registers as umarried then he can remarry again here.
If he wants to leave his wife permenantly you need to find out if he is going to send her money and help care for his kids. That is important.
However, if he is that low to abandon his wife an kids then he is definately not worth having.
2006-06-09 00:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by lovingfeathers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just one guy. And I honestly can't understand why he would lie about being married. Perhaps they are merely separated, in which case he feels he's just stretching the truth (which in my opinion is still wrong of him to do). It is quite shady of him to do that. I wouldn't contact him again if i were you unless it was work related.
2006-06-08 23:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuase he wants to cheat on his wife that or he wants to get to bring her to the us saying they wanna get married when they already are so she can come to the us?
2006-06-08 23:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must of been ashamed of being married to his wife, or just trying to be a player, i wouldnt talk to him again.
2006-06-08 23:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because HE'S shady.
2006-06-08 23:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋