You know how men IM you and you talk for a while. You don't realy know what they want or why they have chosen you to talk to. Well I have been useing a fake photo to share and when they see it they don't talk any more. So I know right then what kinda person they are. I would like to know how many other women do this,and have you actualy come across someone worth while.
2006-06-08 16:02:55 · 13 answers · asked by J J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
that really is a good idea!! and the andre person ^^ there needs to shut their mouth because that is a good way to show if the guy even cares because THAT is the problem with most men of today is that they only care about stupid looks, i mean us girls have to go through all this trouble to look pretty just to impress you guys and i dont really think its worth it!! so would you guys even like us if we dressed in sweats and never did our hair or makeup??
2006-06-08 16:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by xoprettyxnxpink 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not a bad idea in some situations, but I think its probably better not to trade pics at all at first and see if you even like eachothers' personalities. Try it for a week, then decide whether he deserves seeing the real you...or not!
And BTW, my experience (unfortunately) has been that 99 times out of 100, men always want the same thing.
2006-06-08 23:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by CQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience is that if a guy brings sex into the first conversation, I generally don't think they are worth pursuing anymore. A respectable guy would get to know you a little better through many conversations before he would want to talk about stuff like that. I like your idea about the picture though, that really will let you know what kind of a guy they really are.
2006-06-08 23:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by nascarhorselover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its great idea to see how someone really is and what they are in it for. But then again if they were worth while, your going to totally ruin the trust thing right from the start.
2006-06-09 00:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kristin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS THE PROBLEM WITH WOMEN OF TODAY. IN COURT THAT WOULD BE CONSIDERED FALSIFYING EVIDENCE! HOW WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF A MAN TOLD YOU HE HAD A BIGGER PENIS THAN WHAT HE REALLY HAD OR MORE MONEY THAN WHAT HE WAS WORTH.LET'S ALL BE ADULTABOUT THESE THINGS,YOU SHOWING A PICTURE THAT'S NOT YOU IS JUST SHOWING YOUR INSECURITIES.BE AWOMAN ABOUT THE SITUATION AND PUT YOUR REAL PICTURE UP.THEN THAT WAY IF A MAN SEES IT AND CHOOSES NOT TO TALK TO YOU, YOU KNOW HE'S NOT WORTH YOUR TIME IN THE FIRST PLACE.
2006-06-08 23:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by MRLETSB4REAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i sent a fake photo of an ugly girl and the guy didn't like me I wonder why, don't men care about our personalities and our hearts and beliefs and our beautiful souls
why do men always look at physical appearance
2006-06-08 23:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by tika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are misleading guys about who you are. When they find out the truth, good or bad they feel like they were tricked. I would just be honest from the start. These online guys, how do they know that the second guise is the real you? Just be yourself from the beginning and maybe find guys offline as well as online.
2006-06-08 23:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool idea you got there =]
2006-06-08 23:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by lettuceisgreen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good idea
2006-06-08 23:06:59 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the way to do it gitrdone
2006-06-08 23:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by getrdone4006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋