5 years ago when I was 31, I believe I had such an experience with a guy who was then 36.He claimed the experience was mutual for him.Since both our lives were too complicated we remained e-mail friends and now live many lands apart.But it is very hard to deal with, to know that person exist but you can't have them.Has anyone out there had such an experience?
2006-06-08 16:00:13 · 16 answers · asked by lavito 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I believe in love at first sight. It happened to me 25 years ago and we have been married for 25 years.
2006-06-08 16:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do. It rarely happens, when it does you hope your making the right descision. Twice it happend to me, the first time we fought over a trivial matter, I got upset thought she being to demanding. She was concerned, but reasonable. I could have gone back to work it out. I didn't . A year later she got married then 2 kids. I blew it. She was the best GF I ever had. The second time we dated , BFand GF for 3 years ,I din't say I love you she didn't either. I guess she wasn't sure about me. She didn't want to go out for a while , .Then 3 weeks later saw her in a restaurant ask whats going on, she says I found someone else,
I said excuse me? She says I don't even like you. I left .
I didn't know why she said those things. I do now she wanted me to smooth things over becuse I didn't take her out Valentines day.
I have a hard time finding the right one. I'M 48
2006-06-08 23:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By definition, there's no such thing. Love is wanting what's best for the other person; there's no way of knowing that by sight alone.
2006-06-08 23:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by brunchbuddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does exist!! If it didn't I wouldn't be alive today...my parents fell in love at first sight..and were happily in love for 18 years until my mom died...and i've experienced it to, with my ex husband...it was like magic..but I was already engaged at the time, and he had a girlfriend..so we didn't do anything about it right away..but it was electric..and it was NOT lust...he was a virgin and in no hurry to have sex...it was more than that...yea it didn't work out, but while it was good it was REALLY GOOD
2006-06-08 23:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Syeira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I knew I had to have my hubby as soon as I saw him. We have been together for almost 9 years. This doesn't work for every one though. but I also have a similar problem and you just have to deal with it. I know it sucks but life does this to some of us. We just find another way of happiness
2006-06-08 23:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by J J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight is a myth. We all haev an image of the perfect person in our minds. when we meet somebody that reminds us of that person we fall in love with the idea that that is who they are.
It is very possible to have 'love at first sight' and actually meet the person you be with forever, but it is more concidence than fate.
2006-06-08 23:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Caus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont believe at love on first site because you cant judge a person by only looks. personality is really a big part of a relationship. you cant love someone until you really get to know them so why not try.
2006-06-08 23:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Me-Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. i met the father of my son and daughter in elementary school. we were together all through high school and 3 years after. he left me for a younger female that liked to beat him. he then started cheating on her with you know who and we got back together. do i regret the cheating? no. i'm madly in love with this man, always and that is not going to change ever.
2006-06-08 23:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by freemangoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It exsists. Just that it happens as often as Orca attacks, and is much less publicized.
2006-06-08 23:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-06-08 23:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ ♥i'm all smiles♥ ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋