..While we were dating we never had sex and to this day still havent, We broke up because we both moved away. We have been communicating and found that we're still in love. and now he wants to leave his girl friend & be w/me. What should I do?
2006-06-08 15:38:25 · 6 answers · asked by sweetalyssia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Listen to your heart.
Not sure the age range, but usually, it's hard for kids to accept other women in their mother's place.
2006-06-08 15:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I be honest? I really don't think you should. Take this from the child of a divorced home: you'd be stealing someone away from them. I realize fully well that you don't intend to, you two still love each other and I'm guessing you want to have him spending time with his kids too, but to the kids, all they can see is someone's stealling daddy away from mommy. If there are other things going on there, and he's leaving for those reasons, give him time to do it. But, to use the same idea Dr. Phil put out there once, what would keep him from leaving you for another woman?
2006-06-08 22:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back away, back up and away. A man who leaves a woman for another woman creates a pattern for running away. When he has left her and 'dried' out from her (give the drying time about 6 months) then date him. If you find he lied and really had not broke it off with her, this is the great indicator that you dodged a bullet the first time...he leaves her for you, then he leaves you for another woman...then he leaves her for yet another.... you don't want this.
2006-06-08 22:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has 4 children? How are you gonna feel when he leaves you and your four children for someone else?
His children need their father.. You should be ashamed of yourself..
Never monkey with another monkeys. monkey.
If he was already single that would be different.. Good luck..
2006-06-08 22:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Happy. It's your life, do what's right for you.Only do it if you know you really really really.............want him!
Don't **** someone elses(6 others) life up for a bit of fun
Good luck
PS.Remember you may not be sexually compatable!
2006-06-08 22:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by lavito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure he really leaves her.
2006-06-08 22:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by scorpio11120 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋