I have met the love of my life, even though I am a 16 year-old senior, and I know that some of u might say that it's puppy love, but I'm too old for that! I know how I feel, ANYWAYS!!! He told me that he's leaving for Iowa in January, to finish school, and I live all the way in Georgia, and we talked about the whole long distance relationship thing but I really don't want to do that!!! I know if we were really ment to be, then our relationship will work!! So my question to u is, do u think that I should go to Iowa with him, I am saving up for whatever the road leads me too, but I love him and I do want to go with him!!! What would u do, if u were in my shoes?
2006-06-08 15:29:01 · 9 answers · asked by babyg_co07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stay home and look him up in 10 years when you'll be ready.
until then experience life for a while and enjoy being 16.
2006-06-08 15:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is Love and age has nothing to do with knowing if it is love or not, so don't doubt your feelings, love or life just becuase you are 16 years old. I am going to assume that you still have a year of High School to finish? I suggest that you should do that! One year of a long distance relationship if it is true love will only make things stronger for the two of you. At 16 I think you should still stay at home and finish school. Running to Iowa isn't the answer and love will wait if it is love. Trust me! After you finish High School if you guys are still going strong then consider moving to Iowa and starting college were he is going! How long have the two of you been together and how to your parents feel about this sitution. Maybe you could go visit him once during the year. Iowa has some great college and isn't that bad of a state. I've been here my whole life. Email if you want to chat one on one. Good luck to you! Hope my answer helped a little.
2006-06-08 22:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by pinkribbons&walking4boobies 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
finish school, let him move first and try the long distance thing for a month or so, just to feel how it is to be on your own and to be able to give yourself some space to evaluate what you really want. If you feel like you want to pursue a long term relationship or possibly a life with this guy, apply to collages in Iowa. Then you can live near him and be together without sacrificing your education.
2006-06-08 23:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by **0_o** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if the love is real then why are you upsetting everything in your life and going all topsy turvy with it. Get your bearings set where you are at. Let him get his bearings set where he is at. If it's true love it will overcome the distance. If you jump the gun and things go south then who is going to be losing what? Don't take crazy chances, blind faith is one thing but being alone in a strange place is quite another. Take your time get your own focuses when it comes to school, future plans. Let him do the same where he is. Then if on a summer vacation one can go to the other, talk about what things you have come up with as far as your thoughts and hopes for the future........like I said if it's love it will always be there with open arms.
2006-06-08 23:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're sixteen? I would honestly suggest waiting for a little while. Yes, it is quite a distance, but if the two of you truly love each other (as you say you do), then once he's done school the two of you will be free to be closer together. Not to mention, you've still got education to go through as well, am I right? I know you want to go with him, but I do advise staying where you are until he finishes his studies.
2006-06-08 22:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a senior; then, it's very understandable that you would be old enough to go. And if I had to make a choice, I would go in a heartbeat. You need to do things that would strengthen your relationship; not hinder it. Too many young couples have too many things on their plate; too many problems or issues that hurt the relationship before it even gets started.
2006-06-08 22:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by runner45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1ST LET'S REALLY DISCUSS THIS ON THE SERIOUSLY.HOW OLD IS HE AND IS HE FINISHING HIGH SCHOOL OR COLLEGE? 2ND,IF YOU TO REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER THAN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP WILL BE THE ULTIMATE TEST OF TIME.YOUR TO YOUNG TO PUT YOUR LIFE PLANS ON HOLD TO FOLLOW A GUY AROUND THE U.S. AND IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU THEN HE'LL UNDERSTAND THAT.
2006-06-08 22:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by MRLETSB4REAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants you to follow him then go for it... but long distance does work... i live in new zealand my gf is in cali... we are fine... im moving out there very soon to be with her... its all worth it
2006-06-08 22:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too young to go anywhere.
2006-06-08 22:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋