what would you do if you found your son, bf, or husband dressed up in your womens clothes?

Question

seriously.. you come home from work, go to your bedroom to change and BAM! there's your son wearing your undies.

he would be a grown man.

Answer 1

It's shocking, sure, but most of the time, crossdressing is a harmless fetish and nothing to be alarmed about. Just because a man cross-dresses does not mean he is gay or wants to become a drag queen. Don't freak out over it, and take some time to get over the shock, then discuss with him why he was doing it --might have been just a one-time "kinky" idea or a phase that will pass.

Sometimes guys (and girls too) get kinky ideas or habits that they lose interest in as time passes. Sometimes the desire doesn't pass, in which case you have to decide if you can live with that, if he's your husband or boyfriend--- if he's your son, it's really not appropriate for you to be in any way involved in his fetishes or what-not, so you'll have to define some boundaries.

The worst thing you can do is to demand he never do it again because men (like women) often find something more exciting if they're told not to do it. That'll add strain to your relationship as he starts hiding his behavior from you. Again, that's for your husband/boyfriend... for a son, you should tell him that you do not approve and you do not disapprove but he should purchase his own women's delicates if he wants to dress in them, because if he starts associating anything sexual with you (or your undies) then he'll be seeing a shrink a few years down the road. Don't pass judgement on him because that, too, can cause lots of psychological problems further down the road. But tell him he can only do it in the privacy of his room and never with your clothes.

Answer 2

My wife caught me years ago. She freaked out at first, but was eventually OK with it after realizing I was not gay. She has become very understanding and decided that if I liked how panties and hose felt, then they would be a normal part of my wardrobe. I only wear panties, always wear pantyhose under long pants, and always wear panties and hose to bed. My wife thinks pantyhose will soon unisex and says I will be wearing 24/7 by Labor Day. All in all, I could not ask for a better wife and I know how lucky I am.

Answer 3

Well my 7 yr old does every now and then wear his sister's undies when they are playing dress-up. But at this point I'm not too concerned because they are so young.

But if my hubby were wearing my panties, I would probably ask him what he was doing. Mine are prettier than his and have that silky feel to them. I might just think it's Halloween, but then again I might just tell him to get his funky butt out of my drawers!

Answer 4

do you mean your son is a grown man and he's sneaking around in your panties? i would be pissed... if he's grown he can go find his own panties and leave mine alone! but if my son were younger, I would make sure he knows that there are boundaries and he can't go into my drawers and wear my things, but I would not make him feel guilty or ashamed for wanting to experiment with women's stuff. gender and sexuality have all kinds of shades of grey and he should not be made to feel guilty about wanting to find out who he is in that respect.
as for boyfriends or husbands, it would be a little strange for me if they were really into it. If they were just seeing what it's like, then whatever, I wouldn't mind. But if it were a fetish, it would take some getting used to.
either way, I'd be happier knowing about it then any of them sneaking around. :) it's not that big of a deal.

Answer 5

My son- depends on how old he is. My boyfriend- depends on how drunk he is. My husband - ask him if he is having issues. If your son is really young- I wouldn't think anything of it. If he is a teenager however, I would investigate find out why- you will probably be suprised to learn about a few things going on in his life/school.

Answer 6

I would hope he is still going to be a decent law abiding citizen capable of having friends and having healthy intimate relationships with whomever it is he finds attractive. I would be freaked, but I would still love him. I would definitly ask him to stay out of my drawers...

Answer 7

I suppose it might depend on how he acted when you walked in on him. Was he just curious as to how it felt... or was it a life change?

Answer 8

Buy him some silky boys undies,maybe he likes the way they feel!!!! Don't you???????

Answer 9

I would get him some serious counseling as fast as I could!

Answer 10

how old?
dont worry my teacher would play with his moms makeup and he is marred and has 2 kids