Me and my bf have been together for awhile now. He was nice and all at the beginning of the relationship but now he dosen't call me as he use to. He ignores me when we talk and hangs out more wit his friends. I asked him if he wanted to break up and he said no. I don't know what to do bc i still like him but i don't know exactly what's going on with him.
2006-06-08 14:56:16 · 12 answers · asked by Jane D. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him dat dis is bothering u and u dont feel luved and if u wanna still b in a relationship he needs 2 pay attention 2 u.
2006-06-08 14:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, there's definitely a reason why he's behaving this way, but I can't say for sure that he's cheating. You're going to have to do some snooping and questioning to figure that one out. When you begin casually questioning him about his whereabouts or what he did that day (and I do mean casually ....don't sound accusatory), just look for inconsistencies or facial expressions that might seem "fishy".
He might actually want to break up and is being a punk about. Treating you this way so that you can break up first. He probably said "no" when you asked him because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
Before you go into snoop mode, you should have a heart to heart with him expressing your concerns. If you're not satified....commense to snooping and consider breaking up with you.
2006-06-08 22:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by NYCchic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been thought the same thing and i can tell you from experience. Dump him! It is not worth your time or tears. Your young. you will find someone else. Trust me. I know that it may seem impossible. but hey life ain't easy. But you will be better off in the long run. And who knows maybe once you break up he will realize how much he misses you and come back. But NO guy is worth you tears and the one who is will NEVER make you cry. Hang in there you'll get through it.
2006-06-08 22:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by Laken Ace of Spades 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, "cheating" means he has another girl, behind ur back, dun jump to the conclusion that he's "cheating" on u, mayb he's juz gone over the infatuation and u'r stepping up to a new level of intimacy, but then, follow ur heart if u wana break up, coz boys'll never admit they wana break up if a girl brings it up, so that he can come out of it clean n innocent, n u can;t go n tell all ur friends he dumped u, yes, boys are so naive.
2006-06-08 22:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is cheating on you but he just might be gettin bored. I think that you should try to do new stuff with him. Try new things and see what happens. If that doesn't work then you should just move on and I know that sounds bad but if your not happy with the relationship then you should breakup with him. Another thing you might wanna do is to talk to him. Just straight up tell him whats bothering you.
Hope everything gets better.
2006-06-08 22:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetiepie009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make ur self as available to him don't call him very much if he starts calling u to see y u don't call keep it up and make him worry if he does not care dump him
2006-06-08 22:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by T.K.O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't necessarily label that as cheating, but I would tell him that this sudden change in behavior bothers you.
2006-06-08 22:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by memoirsofajeweler1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE PROBABLY JUST NEED SOMETIMES OUT.. OR HE'S FALLING OUT OF LOVE.. IF YOU WANNA KNOW EXACTLY WHAT'S GOING ON W/ HIM.. PLEASE SIT DOWN AND TALK.. COMMUNICATION'S ALWAYS THE KEY IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP.
2006-06-08 21:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by AzNgUrL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time. Talk to him about it.
2006-06-08 22:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by D-fire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him where the is hurting you if he doesnt do anything towards that uninstall him.
2006-06-08 22:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋