If your in a relationship, shouldn't it be mandatory that you call each other everyday?

Question

You know, just to make sure the one you love is alive and well.

Answer 1

These days it seems that almost all of us are too serious. People are frustrated and uptight about virtually everything, being 5-min. late, getting stuck in traffic, waiting in line, expected phone calls that don't call.... you name it, we all lose perspective over it. When we're unwilling to accept life or people being different, in any way, from our expectations, we get uptight. We just can't perceive things being different from the way we want them to be and when circumstances don't fit our ideas, they become our difficulties. We spend our lives wanting things, people, events to be just as we want them to be, and when they're not, we fight and suffer.
Lighten up, honey, people make mountains out of mole-hills when they get over-serious. Lighten up, life will be alot more fun!
We cannot say we love someone unconditionally, simply because, the person we say we love in this way will inevitably say or do the wrong thing, or fail to meet your expectations, ( mandatory checking in everyday) in some way. What happens, we get upset and put conditions on our love: " I'll love you, but you have to change. You must act the way I want you to act."
Besides, unconditional love brings out trusting, peaceful feelings in both the giver and receiver.
I would suggest that you go out and buy youself a plant! See how when loving and caring for your plant, you don't get mad or irritated, sweetie that's unconditional love!
My advice, honey, would be to love your B/F just the way he is, try not to change him, allow him your love just the way he is. Don't make mountains out of mole-hills, just for the sake of your relationship.

Answer 2

Ridiculous. Too clingy. Everyone needs some space.
If both of you agree to it, then fine.
It is not mandatory by any stretch of the imagination, though.

Answer 3

Communication is essential to a great relationship. So if you can't be together and talk, then yes, call.

Answer 4

in our day and age, text messaging's alot easier to do than calling. a text message should be enuf if your partner's in too deep with work or sumthin

Answer 5

you should call eachother, atleast just to listen to the other person's voice.

Answer 6

not really. If the other person doesn't want that, then don't do it. they might feel smothered.