I have had a problem with pornography and constantly having sex. I have never had sex and i truly do want to wait until i get married. i feel that if i dont stop this terrible and evil trend now that my life will be ruined. please help.
2006-06-08 14:11:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Please try to continue waiting.. You should also talk to someone.. a priest or some kind of counselor.. a celibate priest could REALLY help you because they had to overcome alot of urges.. It does sound like an addiction but you really need to talk to someone about this.
Now, on the other hand, you COULD be exaggerating this - I get the feeling that you grew up in a strict environment and probably were taught that sexual desires were very wrong.. Is this true?
How often are you acting on your feelings? If it is happening more than 3-4 times a day, and if you are constantly thinking about banging every chick you see on the streets, then you have a problem.. However, this is all about context.. If you are only doing this like 3-4 times a week.. and don't think about very much about it .. it is just the context of how you grew up and the guilt you place on these actions..
I think you just personally place alot of guilt on yourself about this - that may or may not be justified
How old are you? What was your background? How often is this going on?? If you feel comfortable, please try to post more info so I and others can help you .. If not, please refer to the links below.. You can take the self-test on the second link
2006-06-08 16:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you could have a couple of things going on. You may have an addiction to pornography, which can be treated with psychotherapy.
However, the fact that you mentioned that you believe this is an "evil" trend, etc., leads me to question whether you may have obsessive-compulsive disorder. If that is the case, you may be ruminating about sex and then ritualizing your anxiety through your compulsive viewing of pornography. It is also possible that you may have another problem that is unexplained by the information you listed in your question.
Therefore, if you really want assistance, I would recommend that you seek the help of a psychiatrist (MD) who can provide a thorough psychiatric evaluation and ease your fears and pain. Good luck.
2006-06-08 21:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by seminarygrad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a normal, red-blooded guy. You're probably in your teenage years when hormones are at their peak. What you're experiencing is normal for men, so all I can say is...welcome to manhood.
I would focus on developing other habits & hobbies to keep yourself busy & enjoying life. In time, you'll get married & have a great sex life.
2006-06-08 21:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is pray to JESUS. the devil will use that passion and human nature to make u think u need sex and more sex. THE BEST THING IN THIS WORLD TO TREASURE IS YOUR BODY. WHATEVER YOU, REMEMBER WHAT IMTELLING YOU.SAVE YOUR BODY FOR YOUR WIFE. IT WILL BE THE BEST THING THAT YOU CAN DO.I PROMISE YOU THAT. THAT IS SUCH A WONDERFUL THING TOSHARE WITH YOUR WIFE.Be blessed
2006-06-08 21:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can write in a journal about what you are feeling like at that moment. write the advantages of waiting and write until you stop thinking about it. good luck!!!
2006-06-08 21:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by math wiz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huge out with your friends or play games and just have fun.
2006-06-08 21:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by LayizaBoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't over dramatized it, just find someother hobbies to occupy with....
2006-06-08 22:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋