2006-06-08 14:03:05 · 7 answers · asked by Seerin 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I am very sorry for your loss. I just had a miscarriage a week ago. The whole experience for me has been the most emotional of my life. I found this website yesterday that has some good information about dealing with your loss. I hope it will help you.
2006-06-09 06:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Pren 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear of that sweetie. It's such a heartbreaking experience to have a miscarriage. I had one when I was 11 weeks and 4 days with a previous pregnancy, and have had several 'threatened' miscarriages with this pregnancy.
One thing that I really found help me to cope was to think about the joy that the baby did bring for the short time that it was in this world. I would rather have that experience, than to never have conceived a child at all.
My faith in God also helped me through. He has a plan for everyone, and although we may not always like that plan, it is his will.
I was admitted to hospital after complications with my first D&C and was advised to speak to the hospital counsellor.
I also joined a miscarriage forum, where I found a lot of support from other women who have gone through the same experiences as I had. It really helped me to be able to talk about with other people. I'll include the link to it so you can visit if you like.
2006-06-08 14:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the way I coped with my two miscarriages three kids twin boys at 4 months and a girl at 5 was prayer. I praied that God give me strength to move on and try again till it happend and it did and now we have a 5 yr old daughter. Now i have to pray I have the strength to go through this secondary infertility. Sorry for your loss I know how hard it can be. I will pray for you and your husband that you have the child of your dreams.
2006-06-08 14:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by momof_12003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a miscarriage a year ago (Feb.2005) and it is a hard thing to get over. I cried and said what if, I had did this or that would I have my baby today. there is a reson for eveything and I have finally excepted that. god has helped me through it. I still wondered what if and what my life would be like with the baby today. Time heels all. I am sorry. Just live one day at a time and laugh as much as you can. God Bless You.
2006-06-08 14:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by njacobs7477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found it hard. i laid in bed for about a week and then got up one day and said its okay god will not give me what i can not handle.. I lost twins at 16 weeks I was devastated but after a few months I was ready to move on.. a year later I was pregnant with my daughter.. God bless and allow yourself to grieve..
2006-06-08 17:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by red74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
miscarriges are tough and im so sorry, but try to move on and eat ice cream
2006-06-08 14:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be blunt = just get over it and move on.
2006-06-12 10:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋