Is there really life after love?

Answer 1

Yes. There was life before it, so there's life after it.

Answer 2

Always. Time heals everything, no matter how long. Once you get over the grieving and start meeting new people or even loving the single life like a lot of women enjoy you'll be having the time of your life. Just try not to dwell on it, catch up with the friends you might not have been as close to while you were in a relationship like most people tend to do. Go shopping with the girls, party, go to the gym, do whatever it is that gets your passion going. Your heart will heal, don't worry. This will only make you stronger and more wiser next time. Be well.

Answer 3

Yes. Exactly how it is depends on the choices you make. For starters, you can learn something from any situation. In this case, it might be something that will help you to know better what kind of relationship you want, with what kind of person.

It's also a great opportunity to learn that happiness does not depend on outside circumstances, but on how you think about them. If you haven't read Anthony J. DeMello's 'Call to Love', get a hold of it. Read one chapter at a time. Very serious, fantastic book, talks about love, attachment, happiness, and lots of other stuff.

And maybe just maybe someday you will have a situation where it looks impossible, perhaps sometimes you don't even dare to dream about him/her anymore, and instead of thinking 'Oh, I've got nothing to gain here....' you'll think, 'Well, I've got nothing to lose now, have I?' And you'll just keep loving. You won't feel the need to 'force yourself to move on' anymore.

And you'll have a life - work, other friends, things you love doing not necessarily for money. And you'll be happy - even if s/he doesn't love you back. S/he rejected your marriage proposal, but when you spend time with him/her, you're just so happy to be with the one you love that you forget all your pain.

You're, for example, up in the choir loft in a beautiful little church, there are a couple of instruments and a voice - and you make beautiful music together. After rehearsal, you're saying goodbye, you see the smile on his/her face, you walk away towards the tram stop, and think to yourself, 'Yeah, this is it...'

I know. I just saw him tonight, and that's exactly how it was.

May God bless you

Answer 4

Yes, there is. Granted, it's a somewhat more complicated life because you're no longer ignorant to certain situations.

How does the saying go? "Ignorace is bliss."

Well, it is. Now, after love (especially depending on how the love ends) you would probably be afraid to try it again. You would test people, etc etc.

So, yes there is a life, just a more difficult one.

Answer 5

I believe there is life after love.

Answer 6

I know some where deep inside there is life after love, but life with out my love . . . . .why?

Answer 7

i kno the feelin cause it's like you are so use to thing being a certian way and you doing them with that one specail person and now it's like you have noone to share it with im in that same predicament i feel as though there is but not immediately you need time to heal and then after that you'll be real scared to love again

Answer 8

to tell you the truth no there is no life after love

Answer 9

There is if you really want it. There is always the possibility you will love again it can happen and it probably will. Good luck.

Answer 10

beleave it or not i think! i was in a relationship for alittle over a year we broke up and i thought my life was over but now almost 2 years latter i am fine!! i till love him to death but over time i relize it was best for me!!