We my bfrend chex out gls and he wont let me chk out guys and now he askin me 2 do sex wit him! wat shud i do!

Answer 1

We my bfrend chex out gls and he wont let me chk out guys and now he askin me 2 do sex wit him! wat shud i do!

Translated: "Well my boyfriend checks out girls and he won't let me check out guys and now he is asking me to have sex with him. What should I do?"

Assuming you're under 18, sex is something that requires responsibilty, regardless if you have a condom or not. From the sounds of things, he may just looking to have sex with you, then split. You can tell he can either wait at a later time or find someone else.

Answer 2

I wouldn't have sex with him. How dare he think it's fine to check out other women then get shitty at youfor doing the same to guys. He sounds like he's used to dominating his women, and getting his own way. He snds like he has personality flaws which aren't going to be beneficial to u in either a short- or long-term relationship. He's very much into himself and what u can provide for him ( eg. sexual pleasure) not abt what's gd for both of u and the relationship. I'd tell him first off that if he's going to continue to check out other women then you are going to check out other men, and that if he wants u to stop then he has to stop. If he gets shitty abt this then tell him to go away and find someone who's actually into more than what's good for just him. DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM. He sounds like someone who's used to manipulating his women to get what he wants. He's already started to manipulate u by saying that it's fine for him to check others out but that u better not. Tell him to **** himself, he'll just manipulate u more in the future and if u have sex with him then he'll use that as a way to manipulate u too. Don't give him access to your body, he won't respect it, or u for complying to his every demand. You're worth more than what he's capable of giving you. Get someone who's more mature and not manipulative.

Answer 3

What you are most comfortable doing. Nothing, something or everything are your options. Nothing: Wait and see his true intentions (while still checking out guys with your eyes only for 2 second intervals...forget the double standard) - Something: Speak with him about how you feel and have a mature, productive and relationship building (or destroying...hopefully not if done respectfully) conversation - Everything: ...you feel comfortable doing...nothing that you don't. Trust and believe...I know. u r welcome (in advance : )

Answer 4

Girl, If you do not feel comfortable having sex with your boyfriend then don't do it. If he is very jealous of you then you should tell him how you feel about him checking out other girls before you have sex. Please make sure that you will not turn out to be a booty call. Take good care of yourself and make sure what you're doing. Once you make your decision, remember to use protection.

Answer 5

What is your vision of your relationship with him?

If you want him to be your husband, it's a kind of stupid act. If he love u, then what is the reason checking out with other gals?

If u don care about the serious relationship, u can risk living with him.

But I don know about some lad who prefer sex with many different guys. They just taste different tastes.

Ask yourself! What u want...

Answer 6

This is the same thing that goes on in every relationship. Just ask all your girlfriends in person. They're in the same boat.

Answer 7

You should really ask him why do you check out girls and you don't let me check out guys...Girl if I wasn't to be able to check out guys I would just leave him...

Answer 8

Learn how to spell.
Learn proper grammar.
This will solve at least half of your problems...

Answer 9

Take a spelling class right away!!!

Answer 10

you shud learn how to spell