im 20, never had "sex". i do know a lot of other stuff. i was wondering, cuz everybody says, dont have sex until u meet the right guy. well if u have abf and u've been together for like 6 months, and u love each other, and attracted to each other, is he the right guy? is it a big deal to lose your vitginity?
2006-06-08 13:15:55 · 16 answers · asked by luckygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes it is a big deal..
you would loose the respect and the trust of people around ya.. Please do what ur parents think right.. there is nothing harder to loose your parents respect..
the right man would not put u in uncomfortable place and pressure u for few minutes of lusts that may destroy u..
the right man goes from the front doors and knocks.. and say how serious he is about you..
all the best..
2006-06-08 13:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by KnightSaber2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being together for 6 months wont tell you if he loves you. Some guys will stay with a girl for 6 months just to get some. Wait and you will know when it is time! Don't sell yourself short, you have waited this long, wait longer and if he starts bringing up sex and acting like you should be giving it to him then he might just want that!
2006-06-08 20:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that youre ready and comfortable with this man. Your virginity is the greatest gift you could ever give someone. So if you are willing to give him that and you know that you both love each other there should be no problem. I think its a big deal to lose your virginity, you only give it once and you can never get it back.
2006-06-08 20:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
virginity is different with each person. Make sure when you give it to someone, you won't regret it. If you can see this person in your future, go for it. If no, don't have sex because you're not sure when the right time is and this "might" be it. You'll know when the time is right for you. Don't let others influence you.
2006-06-08 20:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can tell you he is the right guy only you will truly know deep down that he is the right guy. if you both are commited to each other then why not wait till you are married? if he is the one that is pressuring you then i am sorry but that is all he wants. it is ultimitly your decision to lose your virginty, just make sure it is your choice
2006-06-08 20:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by suzie582 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't say hes the right guy but he could be if you've been together for six months.But I would have said yes if we loved echother that much just as long as you ware a condom
2006-06-08 20:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by jazzyfreespirit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its that big of a deal for most guys, but you'll have to let the ladies answer that about women, cause I don't know.
2006-06-08 20:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by DL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will remember who you give it to for the rest of your life so it is a big deal... however if you feel that you are ready and want to give this gift to him go for it. you only live once right? why not make the most of it.
2006-06-08 20:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not really a big deal! actually it depends on u. but if u feel u really love this guy n he really loves u then y not?? theres no reason y u shouldnt n if something tells u dat u shouldnt den maybe u dont love him
2006-06-08 20:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is the right guy
ps think before you do it
2006-06-08 20:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by aimeedsmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋