It could be many things, i'd suggest not jumping to any conclusions too fast. It could easily just be something like she's having a bad day, or something was said that she reacted badly to, or she doesn't like one of her teachers giving her detention and she's taking out on u all. It could be something like that, but it could also just as easily be something much deeper. Has her normal behaviour been a lil different of late? has she got a lil less talkative laterly? more withdrawn into herself? even just a lil bit? maybe something's happening at home which she's finding it hard to come to terms with or talk to anyone abt, but is affecting her greatly. Something bad and stressful could easily be happening to her outside of school that no-one at school knows of. If it is that then i'd suggest approaching the topic with her sensitively and not put pressure on her to talk abt it ( as it's obv a painful and sensitive issue), i'd make sure that u just tell her that if there's anything that she needs to talk abt is going on then you're always open and there for her to talk to u abt it at ANY time, and make sure u can keep to that, if u say that she can talk to u at any time and she rings u up at 2am to talk, then don't get shitty, this may be the time when she most needs u and it wld be a huge betrayal to her if u tld her to come back later and talk - she simply wldn't. Make sure you're not judgemental towards her or the situation, make sure she feels comfortable being able to talk to u abt it. If somehting bad is happening outside of schl then having someone to talk to abt it will help greatly. gd luck.
2006-06-08 13:27:26
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answered by mischief 2
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