hi, im 20, i have had many longterm relationships, but never had sex, i have had other stuff though, and i know a lot about sex. i just dont know why i have never done it. sometimes i think that ill regret it, sometimes i think that i should go for it, cuz ill do it one day anyway...my question is, is it worth it? is it a good idea to just have sex with my bf? did u girls regret? should i or not?
2006-06-08 13:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by luckygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We only live once take advantage of what cha got. I had sex with my boyfriend and I was much younger than you. We now are married and have a beautiful son. When you have sex with this person you share something that no other person will understand because it's just yall. Have fun ( LIVE). We aren't promised tomorrow.
2006-06-08 13:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by J J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart u shouldn't feel so pressured about this, but if u do then u aren't ready u are just giving up to society's expectations. Nowadays most 20 year olds aint a virgin like u which is quite remarkable. Many girls regret there first time because most of them did it with the wrong person u have a choice and the best choice according to most is that u do it according to your feelings. Do it when u feel that hugs and kisses aren't enough to show your affection to a person. And if at the end that person doesn't feel the way u thought he did then u still don't need to regret because u felt something really strong that made u take that big decision. At the end u'll know that he didnt lure u to any trick but that u felt something real, real enough for u to give yourself which at this time many people haven't felt. Well good luck with your decision.
2006-06-08 13:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by actiniumhydrade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first I can figure not out how someone that only 20 years old could have many long term relationships. I guess I need to know what's long term Are your relationships measured in hours, days, months or years.
second, NO do not do it you will regret it. wait to meet the right guy.
2006-06-08 13:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, im 27 and i regret it with my 1st person i dated. he was a complete ***-hole. i wasnt even in love and well i was stupid and apparently niave. i would go for more of the stupidty. dont do it, you'll regret it. find someone to love , fall over head and heels for then later on you wont regret as much. most men desire a woman who waits, i know that for a fact. they respect you more. good luck :)
2006-06-09 17:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not really seeing a future with the guy don't do it.you are still quiet young . you may end up with a guy who you will be glad that you are still a virgin for. Maybe even the man you marry
2006-06-08 13:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by Nece 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it when it feels right. But not b/c you want to lose your virginity or the guy really wants you to give in. But b/c it feels like you're ready and you want to experiment it.
2006-06-08 13:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally do not belive in premarital sex but if u honestly love him and feel ready go for it
2006-06-14 08:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready, you'll KNOW when it's right. Wait until then, otherwise, you will feel like you threw it away. WAIT!!!
2006-06-08 13:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Monogamy is a good thing, but you don't know what you are missing girl.
2006-06-08 13:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by Im_a_winner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what? it'll just happen... you'll wake up one morning and say to yourself... i think i'm ready to have sex. don't force yourself. It will just happen...
2006-06-08 13:13:34 · answer #10 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋