how long after a divorce is it ok to get re-married?

Answer 1

I think that is totally up to you. As long as it feels right for you who cares about what anyone else thinks.

Answer 2

The professionals all say just like after death you need at least a year to get your head on straight before pursuing a long term relationship.
I think that is good advice. I remarried in 6 months and I am living proof that I had no idea what I was doing rationally.
After that mess I made sure I took more than a year before getting into anything serious. It's for the best.

Answer 3

As long as it takes you to figure out what part you played in NOT being able to repair the marriage you had before.
How could you have dealt better with the problems before they got so big?
Did you try to fix your husband? You can't. But you do have the power to deal with probelms in a smart and clever way, that saves relationships.

If you don't get better at relationships, will you chose the wrong man again? Will you have the same trouble solving problems?

It would be ideal for you to go to a marriage counselor, WITH AN OPEN MIND, and find out a few things.

OR talk to a Granny that had a successful marriage for decades. Be CERTAIN, that her husband was not perfect, nor was she, but she had a few clues as to how to make it LAST and get past the difficult times.

Then, you could consider getting married again to a man who you are sure is not the "same type of man" as you just divorced.

I wish you love
stw

Answer 4

the next day if you want. Everybody divorces for different reasons. I knew for the previous 5 yrs. that my marriage wasn't going to work so by the time I told him to leave I had already adjusted to being on my own, thinking for myself, handling my bills, had my own credit rating, money in the bank, a good job, etc. If you just decide to divorce or he does it to you without for warning than I would wait about 1 year at least till you are sure you can manage on your own without a man. Never, ever jump into a marriage without knowing you can take care of yourself so you won't be dependent on him. Take care of yourself first and foremost and then re-marry if you want........good luck

Answer 5

That is totally up to you ... Have you had time to heal from the past pain and hurt of your first marriage yet? If not then take it slow and dont get married on the rebound. Be careful and take your time and make sure you do it right next time! Time tables may differ!

Answer 6

It is different for each individual. People need time to heal, time to reevaluate their lives and time to learn from the mistakes that led to the divorce in their first marriage. This can be a painful but necessary process.

I know it hurts to be alone, but it also hurts to jump into another relationship that won't work. Take time to find out who you are, what you want out of life and how you want to see yourself in twenty years. Also, learn how to be happy with yourself when you are alone. Then you can enter into new relationships and take the time to find out which is best for you.

Answer 7

some people divorce quick, fast and in a hurry just to get married to someone else. Do what makes you happy

Answer 8

If you are in Love and ready to commit to a long, long life together get married this weekend!

Answer 9

I got married 2 days after my divorce...that didn't work...next marriage took me fifteen years. Take plenty of time!!!!!

Answer 10

Whenever you know you are ready. Some people make great spouses, some would probably be best off single. Depends on where you are in life and who you meet.

No set time or waiting period.

Answer 11

the second u sign those papers girl!!!
altho, after u go thru a divorce, y would u wanna get married again anyway?