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my "i thought fiance'" says she hasnt been happy for a long time. she says i talk to her to sarcasticly and that im so cold and i dont make her feel like a women. i'm constently all over her,when we are out in public we hold hands, i've never made a negative remark about her apperance,but she says i dont say positive ones either.all i do is try to get next to her.we always have a great time when ever we go out so what is the problem?

2006-06-08 12:37:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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there are two problems or solutions (im 22 female) #1 she might be right , yes you probably hold her hand and be a nice guy, but women need more sometimes. we want you guys to still look at us like when we first met. when she walks in kiss her, give her a compliment,take her out, try things she likes and go places she likes too not just your favorite places, ask her "is there anywhere we havent gone that you would like to go?, usually girls miss little things like going for a walk or having dinner alone and talking at the beach etc.note: dont just say Hi hun and keep watching TV that gets annoying with time, notice her. #2 she could be lying and she doesnt like you anymore but doesnt know how not to hurt you. best of luck but i think it's the 1st problem!

2006-06-08 12:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7 0

It sounds to me that she is insecure. If she is under the age of 23 then she's probably going to be this way for a long time to come. You have 2 options.

1) be very patient with her. Ignore her when she critisises you (tell her you have to go and actually leave!) Only respond to her when she's sweet, unless you genuinely messed up. In which case, appologise. You'll also have to make sure you compliment her regularly (at least once a day and not for the same thing) and always assure her that you love her. But don't over say it.

2) dump her and move on.

I know that 2 seems like the easier way, but if you've been with her for awhile now you may be pretty attached.
Only you can decide for sure
Good luck

2006-06-08 12:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by Talamascaa 4 · 0 0

The problem is men and women speak different languages. She hasn't been happy for a long time and you didn't even notice.

Here's a clue: Women need to know that they are the most important thing to you and carry some kind of priority in your life. No matter what. Women want your undivided attention. Not at all times but when it counts.

So say something nice, notice her and then notice something about her.

You are taking her for granted and it is showing.

2006-06-08 12:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by C-Squared 2 · 0 0

Let her go, she will probably come crying back in a couple of months. Then do whatever feels best. Women are never happy, anyway. This has happened to me a couple of times. After they see what they think they want is really like, They are sorry, and want you to take them back. Take a break from her, and have a little fun with your freinds, see your family or just spend some time alone and see some of the movies you like, crank the stereo, cook the foods you like, and see to yourself. Most likely she'll come back sorry. If not, You may be lonely, but you will probably be happier. Or not..

2006-06-08 12:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0 0

The question is likewise how nicely do you recognize her history.. Does she have melancholy indications or is she purely no longer severe approximately you? discover out approximately her little ones along with her mom and father or ex boyfriends and her behavior in relationship interior the previous with individuals. Is she manipulative? or bored truthfully searching for brand spanking new, severe exhilaration? Many adult adult males have abusive recognition in relationships yet women would nicely be manipulative too, and that's a variety of abuse. you look like an extremely actual and worrying guy and its uncommon at the instant and that i hate to work out you get harm and change into an indignant guy. If it rather is helped and all else fails you will desire to understand and shield your thoughts and circulate directly to discover a superb woman the appropriate extra wholesome because of the fact too many jerks obtainable that got here out of abusive relationships from their ex-es and grew to become into creeps. the component isn't - to no longer smash up. this is approximately whats perfect for you and terrific for her. Loving somebody covers plenty extra beneficial than purely being mutually, mb its terrific to take a step back and shop a accepted rate friendship for a mutually as to stable issues, discover out the place she's coming from objectively, built have confidence and respective person religious area. being alongside with somebody demands stability and in case you the two would nicely be stable in being acquaintances to realize that, something is achievable. settle for substitute.

2016-12-13 15:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

First of all, have you given her an engagement ring and asked her to marry? If you have, you shouldn't have to think she's your fiance, you should know it.

Secondly if she says you are too sarcastic, you should try listening to yourself when you talk to her. If you can't do it any other way, try recording yourself for an evening.

If she says you don't say positive things about her appearance, try telling her she's beautiful and that you love her.

People don't say they are unhappy for no reason. Think about how you treat her and how you would feel if she treated you the same way.

2006-06-08 12:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by nellie 3 · 0 0

Girls like to play us around.. they say this and that.. sometimes they just want to test and re-test your response or just to get her attention..
i suggest a back-fire response.. "i loveu and i need u.. Do u love me and do u need me?"..
and 4 God sake ask people who knows u and knows her.. there is a chance that there are something is wrong with her or with you.. and work on them..

all the best..

2006-06-08 12:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by KnightSaber2000 6 · 0 0

She apparently has some self esteem issues. You can either work with her on this. And quite frankly this could be a lifetime issue, or move on. This decision is in your hands. I do not envy your decision.

2006-06-08 12:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by Rae 2 · 0 0

Communicate. If it's not happening between just the two of you, involve a therapist. That's what I suggest.

2006-06-08 12:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

make her happy. talk to her and see what make her happy. if its something u dont wana deal with or unacceptable than go on and get u a good woman.

2006-06-08 13:35:56 · answer #10 · answered by caramel_sexy20 3 · 0 0

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