I have one!
2006-06-08 12:15:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Because you are so young that it's stupid. You can't even go on real dates. You have to rely on your parents to drive you. It's just stupid. And you also are so young that you don't have a job and its a waste of money.
And to the person who said that people used to get married in highschool and today don't want people to.....Peope back then were more responsible! And mature. Today everyone is a lazy bum and relys on their parents for everything. Back then people worked younger and were responsable for themselves.
2006-06-08 13:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by stmmay87 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Remembering my dating years I know that dating is a learning process. Close friendships that begin in middle school are good building blocks for real dating when you get into high school. And high school dating can help lead the way to the adult relationship that leads to a life time commitment with someone special.
The problem these days is kids are exposed to way too much and aren't happy just "hanging out" they think they must get naked and do things that once were considered "adult" activities.
Plus hormones and emotions are so mixed up during these years that its so easy to make a bad choice (like having sex with someone you thought you loved only to discover he was "using you") Bad choices can lead to disastorous consquences besides broken hearts like pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases.
My son will be in eighth grade and fourteen years old this coming August. I've always told him that he would be allowed to begin dating - with conditions, when he turned 14.
My conditions are: He may invite a girl to any place where there are lots of other kids and adults like a sporting event,church function, family party, school outing (ie. dance or play), etc.
He has to be where he said he will be, no sneaking out and he has to earn the money to pay for the dates himself.
My thoughts are that he needs time to learn to be comfortable with a girl and see her as a friend not a "female body part" and he needs a chance to find out what types of girls he likes and he doesn't like.
When he's sixteen as long as he's followed my guidelines so far and is doing well in school and staying out of trouble, he will be allowed to take a girl places where its just the two of them.
Hopefully by dating in steps he learns and experiences relationships that will help him to be a great life partner for a woman when he's grown and ready for that kind of commitment.
2006-06-08 12:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by neona807 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it's like you don't exactly no what love is like yet. i'm almost in middle school considering it's the end of the year! but anyways, some people have crushes at that age, but you aren't exactly old enough to know what love is, or even have the skill to probably ask someone out and become boyfriend and girlfriend... anyways, hope you got your answer
2006-06-08 12:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mizunderstood 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because some people think u cant understand the meaning of love at such a young age but look at some of these old pplz they say they met in high skool and they have been inlove since so its all bull pplz just dont want u to experience things for urself
2006-06-08 12:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by la colombiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. It get's really annoying though when people say it. I know because when i was in 7th grade i had a wonderful bf named Devon. I'm 28 now and have no idea where he is, but i still remember that. He was my first boyfriend....but i'm married now...that's somthing i thought i would never do.
2006-06-08 13:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Spongbob's_gay!!!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in middle school and i think its totally okay to have a boyfriend in middle school, i have one right now-
sure people might think that we dont know what love is, that might even be true but we're not expecting to really do anything that serious at our age right now.
so dont think what others think, they might last and turn into love and they might now- you never know untill it happens.
2006-06-09 02:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by chellegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a boyfriend in middle school and u know i learn so much that i use things we use to do in my new relationship.i taught i loved him but know i can see what love is but yea i use to be crazy for him.so no theres nothing wrong with that but dont get carried away cause it hurts.what hurts is the broke up.so its pretty and may last for long who knows thats what i mean.small relationships build u for bigger ones.
2006-06-08 14:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by oly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone who's against having a bf in middle school is just jeleous of thoese who have (had) bf's in middle school! i got told i'm wayy to young for a bf and i'm in middle school. my reply is allways "my first boyfriend was in grade one" and that allways shuts them up
2006-06-09 08:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by babii-gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prettyinpink: it is very well posible to love in middle skewl , i love my boyfriend very much and he loves me . there is nothing wrong woth having a boyfriend in middle. dont let every one else tell you different . 1/3 people who get married are MIDDLE skewl lovers not high skewl middle.
best of luck to u and ur bf in middle, i hope me nad my middle skewl bf stay 2 gether!!!!
2006-06-08 13:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by Soccer rox! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first serious relationship when i was in middle school and I'm still with the guy. It's hard, but if you want to make it work you can.
2006-06-08 12:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋