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Question

hi, i am a 17 year old boy living in southern cali. im not gay or anything, but the idea of womens clothing arouses me. whenever i walk down the street i always noice womens clothing, its just so much better than mens clothing. the silkiness and smoothness and sexiness and sequints i just love it so much. whenever i see something hot or cute on a girl i kind of picture myself in it. the thought of wearing womens clothing or a bra or panties gets me really excited and most of the time i get an erection. i feel the same way when i read about mtf or cross dressers. ive always wanted to try on womens clothing but ive just never had the opportunity, well maybe sometimes but i just get to scared. i havent yet cross dressed but i would really like to. i guess the question im asking is can someone tell me about these thoughts and feeling im having and maybe what i should do, id really appriciate it. also if anyone wants to talk to me about this via email or yahoo mesenger id appreciate that to

Answer 1

Its completley normal and does not mean you are gay. I have a degree in psychology so trust me I know. my yahoo id is [e-mail]

Answer 2

Most crossdessers are heterosexual. I don't have a site to give you statistics, but it is true. So wanting to wear women's clothing does not mean that you are gay. Many crossdressers with wear fine underthings and then normal male clothing over... imagine businessmen in their suits with camisoles underneath.

If you want to explore this further, try finding silky shirts - maybe football jerseys - and there are many styles of men's underwear available in finer fabrics. To take it further than that, you'd need to start buying and to do that you need to know your size. Measure yourself and then compare those measurements to a woman's size chart (I often find the backs of sewing patterns helpful). That way you'll know your approximate size in women's clothes and can then walk into a store or buy off the internet without having to try them on first. Salvation Army or Goodwill are great sources for clothing on the cheap. If you're crafty you could even make stuff yourself. In women's shoes you will run about two sizes larger, so a woman's 10 would fit a man size 8.

You probably won't pass as a woman (most men don't: hand size and adam's apples are giveaways). But you could wear the clothes underneath like the businessman example, or wear stuff at home.

I would recommend you do some research on crossdressing on the net. It is likely that, if your parents found out, they wouldn't understand.

Answer 3

DO NOT let anyone tell you that this is a sur sign of gay! YOU ARE NORML-- I am an old guy and its the same thing. This is why I made many $$ being a Fashion Photographer--- and I am very very straight! Clothing on a lady can be delightful. Colour, movement, etc.

Answer 4

Cross dressing is a unique way some men express themselves , It doesn't mean you are gay . It also doesn't mean you are a cross dresser , I have a friend that likes women's hose and he can rub them across his penis and have an orgasm . It is a normal thing and a unique quality in some men . You may have a great career in Fashion in some way . [e-mail]

Answer 5

Wanting to wear feminine clothing does not mean you are gay. I did not embrace my desire until my wife found my stash in my late 20's. I wish I had made the switch to panties and hose at your age. My mother gave me hose to secretly wear to bed at your age, but I was shy and wore them sparingly. My wife has made sure that I only wear panties and that I wear hose under long pants as well as to bed. I get the feeling that I will be wearing hose with shorts in the near future. My wife says if I want to wear feminine undies, then I should not hide it. Take your time, be subtle and add all the feminine finery you want to your wardrobe. I know you will love it.

Answer 6

Very simple:you have a fetish.It does not mean you are gay or whatever,it's totally normal to have a fetish.Women's clothing probably arouses you,but don't feel bad,hey I got a fetish too, and I like it.

Answer 7

do not make any excuses clarify on your mum that your buddy performed it without your permission, in case you tell her then a minimum of you received't get the blame for it and the fee of the song may probable be some thing from £a million.50 - £3.00 relies upon on what song or web site your buddy went too cos there are some very severe priced songs accessible. because I were stuck some situations and my dad went off on me for determining to purchase them. besides if it makes you sense extra effectual then merely tell your mum i do not imagine she may concepts for one song yet in case you proceed doing it and she or he were given a large bill from vodafone am positive she will have the capacity to be really hacked off with you. merely go in and tell her and also you may probable be taken aback with what your mums reaction will be. reliable success

Answer 8

baby that doesn't make you a FAG your just a metrosexual you have a femmine UNIQUE quality women like that in some men and you'll make a women a nice man there are plenty of men just like you and are wondering the same thing you just have BALLS lol.. to ask but babe there is nothing wrong with that.

Answer 9

You are a cross dresser. It does not mean that you are gay, but it is a problem for some people.

Answer 10

I think those feelings mean that you want to wear the clothing that women wear.