Ok, I love my boyfriend Mike, but we've been together for a couple of years now, but recently, he's been acting really weird. His (cell phone) calls are always a secret. He never has time for me anymore, he's always too tired to spend time with me or even call me. Not too long ago, somebody called my phone and played some voice messages a girl had left to him. Now I think he has another girl, but he refuses to admit it. What should I do about this? I love him, I really do, but It seems that everyday something new pops up. We are now "taking some time off" but I miss him already and I don't think I will last too long with out him.
2006-06-08 12:00:08 · 7 answers · asked by Ale 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm really sorry to say it, but he's got someone else. Please do yourself a favor and cut him loose completely. Do NOT let him know how hurt you are - he will just use those feelings against you while he strings you and this other girl along. It will hurt a lot, but please know that you deserve better and no matter how bad it looks/feels now, someone better WILL come along. You may not think you will last long without him, but trust me, you will. Just take it one day at a time. Don't be afraid to lean on your friends. Cry it out. Do whatever you have to do, but do not go back to him. There are good guys out there. You will find one. Just don't waste any more of your time on this guy, because he obviously does not love and respect you any longer. Good luck and if you ever need anyone to talk to, I'm here (mytib1@yahoo.com). Take care of yourself,
Wendy
2006-06-08 12:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by mytib1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he does not come around like he used to and is full of secrets and does not want to spend time with you like he used to and does not want to amit anything to you..He does not want to hurt you because most likely he does care about you but his feeling are no longer the same and his life is going in an other direction then your you must let him go..Don't hold on to something thats gone because you will only get hurt more...Try and be thankful for the love and time you did have with him and move on..It won't happen over night but it will..I have been there and it does get better...
2006-06-08 12:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 15:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matters that u loves him...is he in love with u? and if u think u r in love...u have to trust him wot he is saying....u r withhim u have to understand him ...ask him wots going on?..dont fight for it..do it in a freindly way....bcoz u loves him...and u'll never like that he breakup this love in 2 minutes...stay cool and ask...wat u r thinking..
2006-06-08 12:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by BAD GUY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your thinking right he's done but doesn't want to let go he wants his cake and eat it to.
2006-06-08 12:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by hank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if you have to ask..........no. get out life is too short its not worth it . DRAMA!!!
2006-06-08 12:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by dzyerda1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else. he has.
2006-06-08 12:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by random internet guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋