My daughters biological father has another daughter. However he pays child support and sees his other daughter. As for mine he does nothing for her. He says that he wants to be in her life but yet he only has seened her twice since she was born. She is now 2 months old. I try to accomodate his schedule but he makes excuses not to see her. he blames me for nopt letting him see her which I do let him. Please help what should I do
2006-06-08 11:49:34 · 7 answers · asked by beenie 21 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
He has only given me 300 dollars the first time he saw her. I bought my daughter all of her stuff like crib mattress etc.
2006-06-08 11:50:50 · update #1
Maybe you should consider going to DSHS and filling out the paperwork so the two of you can write up a "parenting plan" which would entail visitation, etc. Also, DSHS will help you with getting child support from him.
The parenting plan can be written by you and him together, or just you alone and you can go to court and solve it with lawyers, or hopefully can resolve things with a mediator.
2006-06-08 11:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by E M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would address the situation through whichever agency in your area handles child support. This is usually done through the state. I had a visitation schedule and child support order set up with my daughter's father and it works out better for everyone. He will be on a set schedule and then it is up to him to take advantage of it and be a part of her life. If not, then it's his loss. You cannot force him to be a father. As far as the child support, if you set that up through the state, he will be required to pay and they may even take it directly out of his check. That way you don't have to chase him around to help you. It's partly his resposibility too!! Also your daughter deserves to have support from both of her parents; not just you. Do the right thing for her and nothing else really matters.
2006-06-08 18:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by missiceprincess74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk. Sounds like he doesn't care. Keep him away from her because the older she gets, she will gain insecurities about him abandoning her and take it personally. Take him to court and demand that he pays child support, it is the law. Don't accomodate him anymore. Make him put in the effort. He needs to grow up.
2006-06-08 20:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a deadbeat dad. I agree take his *** to court, get child support and visitation. And go from there. He's blaming you, cuz hes guilty. Stay strong, You can do it
2006-06-08 19:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by Little Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to court and get support for your child. He's a deadbeat dad with no heart!
2006-06-15 10:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if he wants to see her he needs to make time and only give him certain dates and times he can come visit. Explain that you can't keep changing your plans to accomodate him.
2006-06-08 18:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by anghe11ic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carry his but to court and get your child support for that baby it belongs to your baby.
2006-06-08 19:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by janice t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋