He is one of the most popular people in the whole school. He is extremely hot and tall. He had a lot of girlfriends and they all very pretty and tall and popular. He looks at me all the time, but I think it's because I'm a nerd or something, or does he look at me because he likes me? I was afraid to talk to him because I thought that he will call me a loser. I'm just a regular girl in school. All of my friends tell me that I'm pretty, but I have low confidence in myself and I think that I'm ugly. Please, tell me if he likes me or not.
2006-06-08 11:48:58 · 31 answers · asked by Sweety 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Grab his a ss. You will know for sure.
2006-06-08 11:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why do you want to talk to him? Is it because he is popular and pretty to look at? If that is all you are interested in, fine, but I can say from experience that there is a lot more to a person than looks. How they treat you is what matters. It's great that you recognize that you have low self-esteem. Now worry about working on feeling better about yourself and the right guy will come along in time.
2006-06-08 11:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think we can answer that for you. You need to have confidence in yourself. When I was in high school, I used to be very shy and have low self esteem. Then when i became more outgoing and had a little confidence, guys really started to take notice. Some guys said that before they thought I was stuck up or something because I would not talk to them. I think you should just talk to the guy. What can it hurt?
2006-06-08 11:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by southernlisa37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy doesn't have the nerve to walk up to you and introduce himself, he doesn't deserve the attention you're throwing at him. and if he is laughing behind your back he still doesn't deserve it. So my advise is, be yourself. When you catch him looking at you, smile and wave, then turn to go. If he insults you, then just smile and walk away. Men like that are hopeless. He may be good looking, but that only means so much. On the other hand, you need to start by finding your self confidence before you can even think about guys. Men can't stand a girl that hangs her head low. They do however, love gals that stand tall, and take care of themselves. Light make up and nice hair is enough. Keep the grades up.
Hugs,
Kat
2006-06-08 11:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by Arena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self confidence is important, whether it's in high school or later in life.
If he's looking at you, he probably has a reason.
One day, just walk by and say, "Hi." with a smile. It's a small gesture, but it's a start. Then just build on that. You could try, "How's your day going?" or "Did you think that test was hard?"
Keep it simple and let the conversation go where it will.
Later if you feel comfortable, ask if he'd like to hang out sometime outside of school or go to a game with you.
Good luck and remember to believe in yourself and have confidence. Trust me, it's not that hard.
2006-06-08 12:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by Toybear_mav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so hard on yourself sweetheart. Sometimes the guys at school who are most popular expect to be with the most popular girl. If he looks at you, he has noticed you. If he thought you were a nerd, he wouldn't continue to look at you. Think about it like this, if you saw an ugly, nerdy guy, would you keep staring at him?
In this situation, I would just hang back and let him approach you.
2006-06-08 11:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by barbramaq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, take your chances. Sparky says that you are not ugly either and think about all the people that have it a million times worse than you and that will make you feel better about yourself, and that your chances with this guy are a lot higher than you think. If a guy looks at you its a good thing usually, im a guy i know these things. Just be confident or else it will be really uncomfortable.
2006-06-08 11:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look first off you need to get your confidence up becuase if you do't the guy will walk all over you. Sorry to break it to you if he just stares at then maybe he does not like you. B . i think you are pretty becuase you know what matters is what is inside not the outside so maybe the guy i hot but he most be a total jerk trust me don't go for him. there is somebody out there for you and when you least expect it he will show up in the middle of nowhere.
hope this helps
2006-06-08 11:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by chosen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't like all the other pretty and popular girls. Maybe deep inside him he just wants a down to earth girl like you but he thinks he might loose his popularity if he comes down to ur level. In this kinda situation, u should muster up the courage and ask him if he likes u. Believe me, u got nothing to loose. And if he calls u a looser, too bad...in life we have our ups and downs. U can take a hit, cant u? GOOD LUCK!!
2006-06-08 11:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony4Christ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try and chat with him and get to know him a little more. if he calls you a loser or anything, then he is the one who is a loser for being so shallow and materlastic. don't have such low confidence, beauty is only skin deep and will only get you so far. plus a guy likes a girl who is confident in herself. best of luck and hope you get the guy!!
2006-06-08 11:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by stretchskeleton10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him? Do you want to always be arguing because of all the girls talking to him. There are plenty of guys out there who have no girlfriends. What makes me laugh is all you girls want the same guy. this guy is probably conceited and can't even hold a conversion. once the sex is over you will have nothing let with this guy. Don't waste your time on him!
2006-06-08 11:55:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋