They have been married three years and my friend wants a baby soo bad. She would be such a good mother and they both could afford it. He is being very unreasonable about it and selfish, in my humble opinion and I just feel so bad for her. Any suggestions as to what she could say to him or how she could persuade him. They don't use birth control, except the "withdrawl" method, I don't know how much of a chance there is of getting pregnant thru that.
2006-06-08 11:21:33 · 6 answers · asked by sgrjackson1 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
thw withdrawel method is what i got pregnant off!!!! only once too!! she should explain how unhappy she is feeling and how much she wants to start her own family!! at the end of the day you carnt force someone but she needs to really open his eyes and let him know deep down she isnt ok at all!! make him realise that thats what she wants no end!!! i realy hope she gets through to him its such a shmae because having a baby is such a nice thing!!! good luck to her xxx
2006-06-08 11:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, How many other things are they not in agreement on? She may be a good mom, but what kinda dad will he be? Do you think your friend will be married for the rest of her life to this guy? I only ask, because I was there 20 years ago. Anyways, if he is a good husband to her, then she just needs to have a heart to heart talk with him about this. He needs to hear her and how important this is. But, she needs to hear him and find out why and how seriously he doesn't want children.
2006-06-08 11:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by mom_nada 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby is a bigger step for a man than a woman because the female usually gets custody in the event of a divorce, effectively forcing the male to be her slave, baby sitting when she wants to go out and paying her to take his children from him. A man, more than a woman, has to feel that there is no chance for a divorce before he will feel comfortable having kids. Your friend's husband obviously doesn't feel that way.
Your friend can go in one of two directions: she can either physically force the issue by remaining on top of him when he comes on one of her ovulation days, or she can humble herself and enable him to be more comfortable in the relationship.
2006-06-08 11:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by Zephram Stark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend you wait slightly formerly having infants take excitement on your marrriage it sluggish mutually return and forth , go out whenever you choose occasion then have infants because of the fact as quickly as you have them this is all long previous
2016-09-28 05:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no one should try to convince about that. it would be so bad for her if she finally did convince him and than once she has the baby, he leaves. than what? do push the situation at all they will just be unhappy with eachother.
2006-06-08 11:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by gm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They really need to both be in agreement for this to be a good thing.
2006-06-08 11:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by Georgia Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋