Is it stange for a womman to get marry and then cut off sex after weekly activitys while single with same man?

Question

Got marry after being with my wife for three years, the week after saying Ido she inform me she was tired of having sex.(background) she had two relationship before me.children from both love them both.she infrom me that she had anuff sex to last life time.this is way after you have talk befor you get marry.we agree on sex she knew I like sex but do to the way I was raise I can not make myself cheat on her .and she know this she also told me her former relationship cheated. and kids have brother sister as old as they are.also she older then me.I like older woman.but why would some one do this to a person you are suppose to love

Answer 1

I think she is not in love with you any more, but maybe because of you, ask her what make her not love you?? maybe you need some change in your life nattitude , do you cause her lots of problemes or you do thinks make her very nerves??ask her and try to satisfay her, or maybe she is in love with some one else, and in the same time, she needs to be with you because of the children, she need you as a friend and a father for the kids, but her heart not with you.

Answer 2

same problem here and also in last marriage,talk to her and tell her u both have to see someone about it if it doesn't chance or she's not willing to work on it no matter how much u love her get out of the relationship or you'll end up hating her.my new wife had several partners before and we use to at least 3-4 times a week then married and stopped,we fight about it alot and she is finally going for councilling.it wasn't fair to me .watch out because she may love u and not have sex with u but she may have sex with someone else who makes her feel good about herself and young even though u do that,its hard to explain and if it happens u won't understand why when u fine out trust me.good luck

Answer 3

It depends on the woman. There may be a reason she has done this. Talk with her and ask her about this. See if she is open to spicing things up in the bedroom with new and fun stuff like toys and new posistions and ideas for fun. You may also offer to go to a sex therapist with her! Whatever you do be patient and give her time and do not cheat on her and hurt her like that! Seek counseling and help if need be and maybe even marriage counseling. Do you spoil her rotten and do alot of romantic things with her and tell her everday you love her and show her how much you do? Do you compliment her alot and pay attention to her and spend alot of time with her doing things that she likes to do?

Answer 4

A friend of mine told me the same thing when his marriage broke up: his wife told him within a month of being married that she was no longer interested in sex. They lasted for several years, he was going out of his mind, but loved her and stayed with her. She finally broke up the marriage.

Divorce is legitimately granted for refusing to have intimacy with your spouse, it's called "alienation of affection." To expect to have a continuing sexual relationship within a marriage is normal, and a person who doesn't want to maintain intimacy has no right to expect his or her spouse to stay married to them.

Suggest therapy, individual as well as couple, as everyone has said. Your wife, as much as you love her, has major psychological/emotional problems. As you already have had an active sex life, it doesn't seem as she has physical problems that would cause her to reject sex forever.

If she refuses, you have a tough choice to make: either divorce her or remain and never have sex again. Having an affair will not keep your marriage together.

I wish you the best, you must be feeling so much pain.

Answer 5

Simple enough, She was looking for a meal ticket for her children. You fell for it. Now get a lawyer and dump her. She doesn't love you, she loves the money you provide.

Answer 6

I am with Quiteman, and I am a women. GET a divorce quick.