WERE MOVING AND HE WANTS A HOUSE AND I WANT AN APARTMENT BUT WE CAN'T HANDLE THE BILLS WITHOUT ANOTHER INCOME AND I WANT TO START SCHOOL FIRST AND THEN GET A JOB AM I WRONG SHOULD I SUCK IT UP AND PUT MY CAREER ON HOLD AGAIN?!! OR SHOULD I LEAVE AND DO MY OWN THING.
2006-06-08 11:10:59 · 3 answers · asked by starodo1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should never have to give up anything for somebody you love. and if he really wants a house, think about like this, you're going back to school to better your education to recieve higher pay, so he should either be patient, or settle for nothing.
2006-06-08 11:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by heybitches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are about sacrifice..but when you are the only one doing this ..that's not right...you say "again"....if he cares about your future then he would be willing to "suck it up" and move into an apartment...a house is something you look for in the future ...when income and success are at it's highest level...you have 5yrs under your belt...you should be able to express to your man your dreams without breaking up with him...but if it seems that he won't even consider your future plans...you have to let go...he should love you enough now to compromise...you both have time to commit to a better foundation like a house...tell him to take it day by day...and when you both are set in life...the Big House with a White Pickett Fence will still be there without all the financial stress...PLease PLease don't limit your life for a man..I am soooooooooo serious....sometimes you have to put yourself first sweetie...Best of Luck...Go to school!!!
2006-06-08 11:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be something else going on why would you give up 5 years just for that.
2006-06-08 11:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋