He just got a big check I feel like I should have something since I am her girlfriend (for about 3 months now)
is it okay to ask him to buy me some clothes or help me pay my cell phone bill
2006-06-08 10:47:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Personal Finance
I ment HIS girlfriend geez!
2006-06-08 10:53:56 · update #1
if he have the money in the time but other than that yeah .sure.why not.
2006-06-09 05:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 4⤋
Nah that's not a good idea any thing in voling money makes situations awkward for the both of you. Especially you if he rejects your question. I think if he just got a big check and you have only been dating for a few months, he will probably take you out on the town and spend the money on you any ways. as for the clothes and cell phone. How would you feel if he asked you for your money for his bills and clothing????
2006-06-08 10:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You are such a gold digger! Nothing-I mean nothing in this world gives you the right to claim any of his money, especially that you are nothing but his girlfriend-not his wife, sister, mother-you are only a girlfriend. Why don't you find a job, grow up and become a woman. If I was your boyfriend I would dump you in a second.
2006-06-08 11:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's funny you ask this question when another post you have states you cannot compromise your integrity. Expecting your boyfriend to buy you something simply because he has a big check seems like a pretty big compromise of your integrity to me!
2006-06-08 10:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by dcgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ok but you really need to be carefull not to over do it. guys sometimes feel traped by that type of thing. dont get me wrong, we like doing things for our significant other, but when you "ask ask ask", he may start to feel like all your stuff is his responsibility, and that is not very fun. we guys like to know that our women can "hold thier own". believe me That is a turn on and a comfort aswell. keep in mind i dont speek for every man but i hope this helps. good day
2006-06-08 11:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-06-08 10:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Just me*~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how would you feel if he did the same? im sure your friends would say hes ripping you off, but whatever works i dont think that the fact that you are the g.f. entitles you to money...btw you can get a job
2006-06-08 10:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by Agb8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you aren't his wife
prentend you just won the lotto, would you give him a chunk of it? i wouldn't think so
and get a job or something, has some dignity
2006-06-08 10:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! just make your own money! he wont want you taking his! I guess you could if you paid him back though.
Listen to Green Day!!!
2006-06-09 11:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Silverstein!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. if i was you . i won't
becoz.. i will be loving him and i want him to get happy with his cheque.. since 3 months he would likely to say that you are greedy!!
i feel like is it your cheaque or his cheaque !!!
2006-06-08 10:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by Joelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and i still don't ask him for money...I earn my own money
2006-06-08 10:49:44 · answer #11 · answered by miss_chrissy_dawn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋