Actually he did have an affair with my best friend and they continued seeing one another long after THEY told me they wouldn't. I eventually used HIS phone to text message her to see if she would meet him! She text back and said she missed him and suggested a place to meet. Even though he had lied to me continually without batting an eye, he claims I am the dishonest one representing that I was him. He called her the following day and told her as much.
He knew I had already called her and told her it was me. He says he called because he didn't trust me that I. I view it as just another excuse to call her. He HAS refused to tell her HE didn't want to see her; only that he couldn't see her BECAUSE I made life hell if he did. I continue to be sad because of his lack of sorrow.
I do not feel I was dishonest in trying to ascertain if this "friend" would continue to deceive me. I am a very honest person but do not feel I owe a cheat the same level of honesty. Do I? Was I dishonest?
2006-06-08 10:45:46 · 6 answers · asked by hello_ms_moore 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You did what you had to do and admitted it. Sometimes complete honesty with someone like that is going to cause you to be treated like a doormat. I know. I'm so honest that I make some people sick, but I have to lie to my husband. About things like money, because if he gets his hands on it then he'll spend it all on garbage. He is an admitted compulsive liar, but tries to tell me I'm just as bad as him even if I'm lying to protect myself and my children from him. That's crap, I don't believe that and neither should you. Your boyfriend is pathetic. You should let him go be with that hussy and get on with your life before he really makes you crazy.
2006-06-08 10:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No U r not dishonest, but really U found what u were looking for. so U hurt ur own feelings. Keep this in mind ...anything that goes in the washer must come out to be dried. U would have found out soon enough and maybe it would have been a longer time in which it may have been easier for u. As for ur friend no that she is not ur friend and that he should have been off limits to her. so now U really don't have to put up with either of them because they mean u no good, so take this as an learning experience and let them have each other, they deserve eachother. U will find a new friend that cares for u and he is deffinitiely not the last fish in the sea.
2006-06-08 11:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
path you dont would desire to be pals, confident honest adequate she could be a severe high quality man or woman and the previous is the previous yet why the would desire to be pals along with her. And in the experience that your husband is a minimum of telling you shes phoning and issues there is not any longer something to agonize approximately, i could purely placed a grin on my face and relatives purposes say hi and thats it
2016-09-28 05:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u wernt but i would get rid of them both
2006-06-08 10:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, wat he did was dirty, rotten, s k a n k y and wrong you have no fault in this so clear your mind of it and move on to better things
2006-06-08 10:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by jake_samurai_chef 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i think what you did was ok, but why are you still with this clown?
2006-06-08 10:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by spyderman1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋