My bf and I have been together for a year. on easter I found a letter from a female co-worker of his, calling him sweetheart and saying that she wants to get to know him better . I confronted him about it and he says there is nothing between them, yet I keep finding these letters (5).she knows he has a gf and I know he has been writing her back cause she once said in a letter that they need to stop writen emails to eachother cause their work monitors what they say. he has a cousin that works at the same place as them and this girl lives in the same apmt complex as his cousin they carpool together and are good friends.If I'm over at his cousins and she calls they both get real quiet, his crazy uncle has also called me by the girls name a few times. and when I drop him off at work and she is outside she sees me and looks away .now he doesn't know I found the letters exept for the first one and I don't think hes done anything more than just talk. What do I do? I love him!
2006-06-08 10:45:11 · 11 answers · asked by btre22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
confront him.. depending on his reply.. take it from there.. personally love him or not i would never b in competition with anyone.. if he wants someone else them more power to him.. i'll find someone who wants me and only me. he will do the same to her someday. u deserve better. u have invested a year of ur life do u want to waste anymore on someone who cant b faithul? and yes he is being unfaithful by writing and fueling her intrest even if he hasent done the nasty yet..love isnt a one way street...
2006-06-08 11:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u guys need time away from eachother then tell him why tell him that u think hes cheating on you and that u found the lettersthen say im better then this and i dont need you if your going to keep hidding things from me ! your better then that and u know it i know its going to be hard to let goo but u might not have too just talk to him take a break then he will realize he needs you and your the only one thats good for him!
2006-06-08 10:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by baby phat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's writing letters back to her and not telling you about it. Its not a good sign. You should think about leaving.
2006-06-08 10:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a friend of yours told you this what would you think?
She's in his life enough for the family to know her and call you by her name. He is guilty.
2006-06-08 10:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him you will let him be happy. If he is happy to have you both and still cannot decide who to choose let him do it. If he will marry the other one, pray, and the better one will come. He might not be the one deserving of your love.
2006-06-08 10:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a number of red flags here...
You confronted him, and he denied it.
There obviously is SOMETHING going on.
He's cheating on you, either physically or emotionally or both.
2006-06-08 10:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by chia_vampire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and get it over with. If he's innocent you'll be able to tell. If he's guilty- it'll be written all over his face!
2006-06-08 10:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it smells like a piece of crap, well then.................confront his a-s-s!! There is no excuse for this! I would not put up with it, I would definitely ask him what is going on, and tell him exactly what you said on here.
2006-06-08 10:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by somechick25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is cheating. Confront him then dump him.
2006-06-08 10:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by Baconbits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you do if you don't he will know that he can do it again
2006-06-08 10:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋