I am a married man and i have fallen in love with someone else and she wants me to move in with her what do i?

Answer 1

First be honest with your wife about what is going on. If you truley do not love your wife and dont want your marriage anymore then divorce her and let her go and dont conitnue to put her through this. Do you not love your wife any more?

Answer 2

Do what you have to do, just don't expect your wife to be waiting with open arms if you find out you've made a mistake. People fall in and out of love all the time, even people married to each other. The fires can't always be burning bright, and people can become attracted to others. That doesn't mean you should ditch your wife to go after someone else, because it will keep happening and you will never have a stable long term relationship
Would you really not care if your wife had a life of her own that didn't include you? If so then it's really over and you should go. You just better hope this woman isn't playing with you. Your relationship with her doesn't come with any guarantees.

Answer 3

Well, you are a married man, therefore you are committed to another woman. My suggestion is, that you take a hard look at what you have at home and don't think the grass is greener on the other side. Do you really think this woman that you have fallen in love with is really going to trust you down the road? First of all I have been there and when push comes to shove...I did not trust him. If he could do this to his wife what makes me any different. He will do it to me and it will be easier this time.

So, my advice to you...is seek out some marital counseling and try and work out your marriage with your wife. You loved her at one time and hopefully you can get that back. Try putting the Lord in your relationship and see what can happen.

Your girlfriend, is not going to say with you down the road, I can bet my life on that. I learned the hard way, but now...there is no way I would be involved with a married man. Please think twice as to what you are doing....There is more than just you two that this effects...

Answer 4

if you are unhappy with your wife be honest with her. if you have to move out do so, but think long and hard about moving in with someone else so soon. You might think differently once you have left your wife, you might find that she is the one you really love, if not fine, but if you do still love her more than this other woman you may have traveled down a road you can't travel back up, what a terrible shame that would be. You must have been in love with your wife once, think how this will affect her and decide if you really want to put her through the heartache for something that wasn't even real.

Answer 5

1) This relationship is probably fleeting since you probably loved your wife before - what makes you think you'd be faithful to the new girlfriend?

2) If so, you got to go ahead and tell your wife just to preserve any self respect. She'll probably want to divorce you then so then you don't have to make the decision. This only gets worse as it goes along.

3) If for some reason she doesn't want a divorce she'll forever have the upper hand in which case you're screwed!

Answer 6

First off you should have never put yourself in that situation. But now that you have you got a big decision to make.

Whatever you choose you need to tell your wife. and if you want to be with this other woman your wife will probably want to leave you anyway after you tell her you have been stepping out.

Can you imagine your wife coming to you and telling you she met this wonderful man and she is falling madley in love. Your just not what she wants anymore. Its a real hurtful thing what you have done.

But whats done is done and you will get yours cause karma will be waiting in the wing

Good luck and be safe

Answer 7

Get out of your wife's house, if you are in love with someone else you should really let your wife in on the secret. Just make sure it is love and not lust. But put yourself in your wife's position and then decide if you are being fair to her. You loved her once does she deserve to be treated this way? I hope you find your answers, but they really need to come from your heart not here.

Answer 8

Depends...If you have children?Did you fall in love with this other person because your marriage was already gone?Think do you love you wife at all?In my marriage I am at the point where I don't really care for my husband...I stay in it for my children mainly!My children are starting to pick up on this tension between us...I am like you what do I do...How do you just start over..I want you to think with your heart..in years from now where will you be...who will you be with...who will really be there for you when it all said and done.Good luck...when it comes to matters of the heart...you have to play it safe!

Answer 9

you need to be honest with your wife. But you have to understand that this is going to be devasting for her. You have to make sure you are in love and not in lust with this other person. I was in a similar sit. but the other way around and i told my husband if he moved in with her i would never take him back and he did not but i was very serious about it. Understand that you may lose your wife for good and that you will regret what you lost and it might be to late.

Answer 10

do you have any children? and if you do then think of how the children are going to react, when you leave her to live with someone else!!! if you do leave her make sure that your children understand that you are not going to stop loving them!!! but if there is no children then you need to tal to your wife? and yall decide together, no matter what its going to hurt her.how long have yall been married? and is this a 7 year itch?
make sure that you want to leave her because it is love and not lust sometimes that is tricky.
prayers are with you