We are alwaysfighting. I dont know if i want to be with him anymore. What should i do??
2006-06-08 10:24:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I was having the same problem with my ex, we were dating for a yr and we started fighting an awful lot, and I thought and awful lot about it. So I told him we needed to talk about what had been going on, I told him we didn't seem as close anymore, we fought more then we got along anymore so... we talked about it together and we took a break from eachother from a while thinking maybe we were just spending to much time together, that can do it too, but that didn't work either, I'm just glad I found out sooner rather then later when it was too late.
Hope this helps let me know
2006-06-08 10:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by blondie23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you fighting? Was it his fault or yours? Do you talk to him about the problem? Have you resolved the problem? Talk it through then decide if you really don't want to be with him anymore. Itdentify and explain to him the reasons. Maybe you just dont like him right now because you are arguing a lot.
2006-06-08 17:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by equality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you fighting about? People don't fight for nothing, and usually what we fight about is not the true issue. You both need to have a discussion on if you want your relationship to work, and if so, you both need to be open about your feelings towards one another, and what you each desire from one another in the relationship
Don't push the relationship aside until you can decipher if the problem is in the other person or yourself. If it's in yourself, then you need to change because you can't change the other person. And if you try to go with someone else, you'll bring unrest in that relationship.
Remember, men don't show their emotions and concerns the same way women do. It is your responsiblity as his girlfriend to talk to him, and ask him if you've done anything to cause the unrest in your relationship. He needs to do the same.
If you want to be together, you both have to get the pain out of yourself BEFORE you can have peace with each other.
Good Luck!
2006-06-08 17:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr. Love know what its like to be in that situation. What you need to do is seriously think about the pros and cons of being with this guy. Im not going to sit here and tell you to just leave because its easier said than done. Most relationship arguments accour because of communication problems. Stop and think before you speak, Try not to nagg at him, If you see hes in a bad mood just give him his space. See men are like women too. we have our "Time" when we just dont want to be bothered. Try that on 4 size and holla and call me in the morning
2006-06-08 17:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest i think you just want to hear it from someone else. But the thing is no one can answer it for you. If you don't think you want to be with him anymore, then you shouldn't be with him. He might have good qualities that keep you hanging around, but in the long run if you're not compatible, that's all there is to it. Don't invest your emotions into something you know won't be able to make you happy.
2006-06-08 17:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by whoareyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to resolve the problems in a positive way. Try to nogiate and make each other happy. If this does not work then break it gently to him that it is not working out.
2006-06-08 17:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by starfayjewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on what ur always fighting about. if it's not really anything big then it's probably not worth it. but if it is something big and u really can't take it anymore than i would break up with him. but u might want to tell him about how u don't always like it how ur always fighting and maybe he'll change. but i'd talk to him first before breaking up with him.
2006-06-08 17:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by serendipity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all it all depends on what you guys are fighting about if its just little things then u shouldnt worry about it its nothing everone fights in a relation ship even i fight with my boyfriend but over little things just let hin know how you really feell about him and ask him how he feels about you dont worry im sure you and him will work things out !
2006-06-08 17:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by baby phat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all do you love him? how long is always ? if its between 1-3 months tell him straight up that you don't think it's working out and you want to brake up with him.
2006-06-08 17:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by suzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and that you need some time. Just be honest with him about how you hate fighting and you are tired of it.
2006-06-08 17:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋