Should I be myself or should I act really quiet, calm, and mature?...
If I be my self, I know my dudes will appreciate me, but If I act mature like I said before, I think I'm just hurting myself. This Sophmore year was very boring because I was trying to be someone who I was not. But today, I was going wild in school and did whatever I wanted to do and it felt really good...
But If I be myself, then I'm a little immature and I don't think the girls will find that impressive...Any suggestions?
2006-06-08 10:00:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be yourself
2006-06-08 10:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by yeah 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No one will find it impressive if you act immature. The girls certainly won't, and neither will employers, teachers, coworkers, students, anyone, only immature people enjoy being around other immature people. If you act more mature, it will eventually become a part of who you are, like a habit, and you will find that you actually BECOME mature over time. If your friends see you acting like an adult man, they will start acting like men too and quit acting like boys. And by the way - this is how ladies see it, no matter what their age. Boys are immature, and men aren't. There you go.
2006-06-08 10:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only be who you are. If your a little immature right now then that is how it is. You cant act to impress a girl....once she starts going out with you I'm sure she will be able to figure out your immature. Might as well just be who you are and hang with people who like the real you.
2006-06-08 10:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, first i would not have pronounced the notice trolls on your reaction; that for the time of and of itself is slightly immature. Being mature is better than purely performing *solid* some circumstances right here and there, it particularly is a existence-type, which could come certainly as we age, and deliver at the same time existence studies. the single situation that i hit upon with the present babies is their lack of ability to communicate with adults, now which you adult adult males text fabric all and sundry, there's no sense of communication skills. in reality, lots of your friends might particularly be crammed of their cellular telephones or Ipods. So, to be greater mature, i might attempt and deviate and abide by utilising the policies that are placed earlier you. specific you won't continually accept as true with them; in spite of the indisputable fact that, there is often the rational away to innovations-set confrontation, and it would easily be the mature situation to do.
2016-12-08 18:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by moncalieri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be yourself. I had to learn the hard way also... Good luck...
2006-06-08 10:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being urself is always the best bet.
2006-06-08 10:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jen S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, that's more impressive than acting.
2006-06-08 10:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋