i don't want to getin any1's business but what did they say or do after they found out??
2006-06-08 09:53:14 · 31 answers · asked by Mack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never, if you cheat how can you expect the other person to really respect or trust you?
2006-06-08 09:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, i some what agree with faststeve. Yes, i have cheated! It is a bad thing...I do admit it. I believe at times we do it when we feel unsatisfied with our relationship. The right thing is to either end it and move on...Easier said then done!!! The other thing is to try to figure a way to work on the problems and issues in a marriage. Then the cheating way...Hiding or afraid to face the situation. Marriage isn't easy! It is a team effort, to work toward goals, challenges, and still maintaining a friendship. Communication!!! I do regret causing pain on my love one. But i don't regret the experience, it help us realize there are issues we are putting on da back burner instead of dealing with them!! Communication, communication, communication!!!! What else can i say? I would of stayed faithful is i felt my mate could of been open to LISTEN and TRY!!
2006-06-08 19:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by csabrinam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my husband and it was the biggest mistake of my life. I was so filled with guilt that I divorced him. I didn't tell him what I had done. He found out by accident about 10 years later, and was just as hurt as he would have been if he'd found out while we were married.
Luckily he forgave me, and we got back together after all these years.
Don't do it. If you do, tell the truth and get that monkey off your back. That's a lot of guilt to try to live with.
2006-06-08 19:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by PMS 24-7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes in the very beginning i hurt her by going onine for cyber but i felt so bad and it hurt her so bad that i stopped and never will do it again and God has changed my heart and life and i vowed in my heart to never do it again! When my wife stopped nagging and asking me why i had done that and she read the book The Power of a Praying Wife and god to her to hold her tongue. He spoke to my heart and it changed me! I will never forget how it tore her up and almost ruined what i had with her! Trust me cheating and unfaithfulness is never worth it and the pain is horrid ! It may be pleasureable at the moment but the lasting results and consequences are not worth doing it at all! Think before you act!
2006-06-08 17:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i cheated on my husband 3 yrs ago with his friend to pay him back for what he done so i told him after 3 weeks of the affair and i told him he can leave me or forgive me, he cried well we both did. and still til this day he kinda dont trust me but we are together been together for 5yrs now. I dont recommend cheating it might be thrill seaking but in the end someone always gets hurt.
2006-06-21 21:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never,that is the lowest thing that a person could do.If you are not happy anymore with that person.why not just leave.It will bring more pain then anything.Plus then they will lose trust in you and think everytime you are away that he/she is cheating AGAIN.Why play games in a relationship and hurt the person that you claim to love.If you want to cheat.Dont get in a relationship,Plain and simlpe.Then you can do wantever makes you happy.
2006-06-20 16:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by ~Devilz~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bottom line is that you shouldn't cheat on your lover. Break up first and try to do it the best way you can.... I just know this singer who used to sing very good untill he found out his girl was cheating on him so he threw himself out of the window and died... It just sucks, but try to do what's right.... never wait!!!
2006-06-22 10:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by brother from QG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - never have. I wouldn't want them to do it to me. It's inexcusable to lie and screw around behind their back. I have a rule - don't screw me after you screwed someone else - I don't care if they tell me or not, but consider it the end with me. If I find out otherwise, I reserve the right to punish them in any manner I deem necessary or applicable.
2006-06-08 17:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by tshnobodysfool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes cheated, well actually both of us cheated on each other, but we have an open marriage now, but we do love each other very much, hubby can get bored with the same chic, ya know
2006-06-08 22:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sort of. I don't think of it as cheating, and my wife doesn't, but we'd been having threesomes with her girlfriend a lot, and one day I got home before my wife, and her girlfriend was there, and we started before my wife got home, but my wife just joined in when she got there, so I don't know if it counts.
2006-06-08 17:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thought does not even cross my mind. I love and honor and cherish my husband and the sanctity of our marriage way to much to risk losing him over some fling.
2006-06-08 16:57:18 · answer #11 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋