2006-06-08 09:48:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How old is your relationship? If it's a fairly new relationship...you're not going to get absolute total honesty right away. He's still tryiing to impress you and woo you and will lie (even little lies) not to hurt you or he will do so to impress you. If this is the case and its a new relationship... just have a little patience and wait until this bumps up a notch in relationship intensity. If this is a fairly mature relationship... just confront him with your concerns... not in a hateful accusatory way... but in a frank, I'm confused about this way. The way he chooses to respond to you will hold the answer you seek. Good luck
2006-06-08 09:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him that you have caught him lying and want to know why he is lying. Be honest with him and don't be argumentative or defensive - be calm and give him a chance to explain himself. He may or may not tell you the truth and if he decides to keep lying there isn't much you can do. Just let him know that you know he's been lying and tell him there is no reason for him to lie.
2006-06-08 09:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhh...the man lies. They do not understand the many "Wayz" they lie. First there is omission. Then there is not answering the question. Then there is denial. Then the "I didn't understand" what you said....Girl, get used to it 'cause it's the nature of the beast!
2006-06-08 09:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by educated guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u guys should see a counsler. maybe the counsler could talk to him and he will let his true feelings and whatever he is lying about out
2006-06-08 10:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men r liars so U may as well get used to it. even when U catch him and see him with ur own eyes he will try to convince U,"U didn't see me baby"
2006-06-08 09:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him on it in the little lies and then learn his tells, if he is lieing all the time then dip, if you don't trust him, it probably won't work anyway
2006-06-08 09:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by L C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY IF HE LIE ABOUT LITTLE THINGS U NEED TO GET HIM STRAIGHT BECAUSE WHAT MEN DONT REALIZE IS THAT ITS ALWAYS THE LITTLE THINGS THAT MATTER THEY R SO MUCH BIGGER TO US AS WOMEN AND Y IS HE LIENG TO U ANYWAY
2006-06-08 09:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by yideopen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a private detective. that is the only way you will ever know for sure. that is what i would do... or maybe even "cheaters"
2006-06-08 09:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by b. lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife does the same
not much you can do but pay attention
2006-06-08 09:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mr nice guy 2U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him not to do it but if he does it again you can make him by force
2006-06-08 09:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by barooone_shadi_vafa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋