Here latley in the past months i think about this girl alot. I mean the truth when she smiles at me it makes me feel funny on the inside. i just can't explain it. I have never in my 25 years met a girl that made me do that. At first i thought it was infactuation, but she doesnt have the best body and she not a model, When i do think of her its not sex or nothing its just making her smile and fell happy. Then we are from two different social and economic classes, i really dont think she sees me as anymore than a cool guy. Im fine with that but why do i think of her. . I have never really told her all this. Basically i have never been in love is this love or what is it. I want to tell her but i dont wonna make her think i'm crazy or nothing
2006-06-08 08:40:08 · 10 answers · asked by raradaone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It may well be love, but don't dare tell her that! Just say something like "Is it just me, or would you be interested in being more than friends/going out sometime/etc.?" It's low key and low pressure (meaning you should be able to continue to be friends if she does not feel the same) and you will never know if you don't ask! Please don't assume everyone makes relationship decisions based on their family background. Good luck!
2006-06-08 08:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by hiddenhotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to think of a female friend occasionally while you are apart, but if you are thinking about her a lot lately, ask yourself why? Are you growing feelings for her beyond friendship? Does social and economic class mean a lot to her or you? I would say go for it, and ask her if she would like to date. You will never know how she feels if you don't ask.
Love takes time to develop--maybe you love her, but it doesn't sound like you're head over heels for her. Just want to make her smile. Which is very sweet.
2006-06-08 08:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a risk. Besides things being awkard at first what is there to lose? She won't stop being your pal because of a crush. And if she does then she wasn't really a friend in the first place.
2006-06-12 17:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love with my best friend. And it worked out good because now your dating. Let me tell you right now ignoring your feelings wont help. It will just make u feel very alone. Tell her how you feel and see where it goes. If she turns u down at least you'll know u tried.
2006-06-08 08:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're interested....I know you are from totally different social classes....But since she is a friend already,,,,Why not say something like.."do you want to go out sometime, maybe?" and if she says ..."oh, no thank you...Then just move on...But she could say Yes!!!! Then you guys will have to go out!!
2006-06-08 08:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound in love. Go for it. Remember its not about the outside what counts, its the inside. And if you like her personality. Don't let this moment get away, just take it slowly, don't rush. If you rush things, she will not like that. Good Luck!!
2006-06-08 08:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt have to be a model for you to love her. its definitely something i wouldnt ignore..maybe look for other signals that tell you if your falling for her or not and then maybe it will help you decide to pursue it. i wouldnt tell her yet if everythign is going good and your just enjoyin eachothers company i would wait for more proof that its REALLY something. then def bring it up jokingly in conversation when u guys are complimenting eachother...good luck it sounds like theres definitely a SPARK!
2006-06-08 08:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by toolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooohh yea i remember that feeling. if i were u i would tell her because when i had that feeling with this guy who was like in a diff social class than me i just wanted to tell him.he gave me a hard-knock feeling in in the pit of my smotcah.so one day i walked up to him and told him how i felt.now today we're still dating and its been 4 years
2006-06-08 09:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by lachicadom1n1cana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds like you love her. I wouldn't say anything unless you feel she might feel the same way. Otherwise you will probably loose the friendship because it will get weird once its out there.
2006-06-08 08:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to go out. If she says yes, then she is interested. If not, then it's time to look elsewhere.
2006-06-08 08:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by ninapanama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋