I think im in love with my boy friends best friend
ok my boy friends name is josh and my boy friends best friend is Joey
Ok im also real good friends with Joey
ok Josh says he loves me and always will
But Joey doesnt like me (i think) and i dont know what to do......\
Is that horrible of me that i like Joey more than Josh?
2006-06-08 08:34:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well when I was 17 (im 24 now) i was in love(or so it seemed) with my boyfriends best friend. I wanted him so bad that I made it a mission to get him. And you know what I did. And it was so so great. We met in secret and it continued on for about a year with my boyfriend being none the wiser. We would all even hang out together while this was going on. Eventually my boyfriend and I broke up, not because of that and he never found. So his friend and I started seeing each other now that we were broken up and you know what. It lasted like 2 weeks. Relationships seem alot more fun when they are new and exciting but once we got into the real world it wasnt so great. You like his friend because I bet you all spend alot of time together like we did and you've got to know him really well. My advice is just be careful. If you do cheat on your b-friend you may get caught and lose both of them. If you get together with his friend then you will be responsible for breaking up a friendship and he might resent you for that. Good luck sweetie!
2006-06-08 08:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not really horrible of you to like Joey, but remember where your commitments are. There's one moral line I think one should never cross & that is to have affairs with best friends or your siblings or family members exes. It's just poor taste. It shows desperation on your part. But maybe if you just met Josh & Joey then maybe they're fair game, but if you all have been knowing each other for quite a while it spells TROUBLE. Remember the grass isn't greener on the other side. See what it is about Josh that has you looking elsewhere & try to work on that. Be honest with yourself. I doubt it has anything to do with Joey at all. Good Luck.
2006-06-08 15:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from Joey and stick with Josh.
2006-06-08 15:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by ♥W!f3y M@+3r!@1♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that isn't horrible maybe josh lacks the qualities that joey has, or maybe you and joe have more in common. dont do anything stupid like bone your boyfriends bestfriend cause than that would be cruel! take time to assess the situation see what you want and go with your heart just be respectable in whatever you do and good luck!
2006-06-08 15:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by yousexythangyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS MAY SOUND A LITTLE LIKE PLAYING CHESS, BUT IF I HAD TWO BOYS THAT I HAD FEELINGS ABOUT, I WOULD SOMEHOW GET THE THREE OF US TOGETHER SO I COULD SORT OF WATCH THE WHOLE THING UNFOLD A LITTLE BIT MORE... THE BOTTOM LINE IS THAT YOU GET TO MAKE UP YOUR OWN MIND, AND NOT BE PUSHED OR FORCED INTO BEING WITH ANYONE IF IT'S NOT WHAT YOU WANT. MY ADVICE IS TO TELL YOU, NO MATTER WHAT ELSE MAY HAPPEN, YOU STAY IN THE DRIVER'S SEAT SO NO ONE CAN HURT YOUR HEART OR UPSET YOU IF YOU EVER GET TO THAT POINT WHERE YOU FEEL YOU REALLY WOULD LIKE TO DECIDE BETWEEN THE TWO BOYS YOU MENTIONED. IF YOU SPEND A LITTLE MORE TIME WITH BOTH OF THESE BOYS, EITHER TOGETHER OR APART, ONE TO ONE, YOUR HEART WILL INFORM YOU WHICH ONE IT IS GOING TO BE. IT'S FUNNY, BUT YOUR HEART WILL ALWAYS KNOW. THE TRICK IS TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND NOT THE SURFACE STUFF THAT USUALLY DOESN'T LAST AS LONG. GOOD LUCK TO YOU FROM SOUTH PORTLAND, MAINE, U.S.A.
2006-06-08 15:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by GORDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on and get over it, you're only going to hurt everyone that is involved.
2006-06-08 15:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry you are going to like alot of different boys besides your boyfriend
2006-06-08 15:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u r a bad friend
2006-06-08 15:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by Vanessa C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u can love both of them
2006-06-08 15:40:50 · answer #9 · answered by diamond maker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend how you really feel
2006-06-08 15:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by cutesweetbooty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋