a few months ago me and a close friend had a huge falling out. In the three years that we were friends we had a lot of problems. We did the whole "well ifu do this to me ill just do it right back". It was me who ended the friendship because honestly i got sick of her being a back stabbing ******. I must admit i do miss hanging out with her and me and her did have a lot in common. Should i give it another try or just let it go?
2006-06-08 08:16:48 · 20 answers · asked by andrea lynn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try answering this questions:
1. Why do you want her back?
2. Do you think she wants your friendship again?
3. Do you think your friendship will be as valuable as it used to be?
4. Do you think you two will have tons of problems again that you will give up on the friendship?
Hope those questions will help you decide whether you want to give it another try or just move on.
Good Luck
2006-06-08 08:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all have different kinds of friends. The important thing is: is she there for you when you need her? It's just like those married couples that argue all the time but still really love each other. If you miss her, then you should both just talk about what drove you apart and try to work it out.
Be careful though. Missing her might not actually mean you care about her. If you were really attached, then it'll just feel weird for a while because you are fond of her. You were friends for a really long time. I advise you to sit back and analyze the situation. If her friendship is worth a lot to you even with all the trouble you have with her, if she's there when you need her, give it another shot. If not, move on. There are 6.5 billion people in the world, you'll find other friends.
2006-06-08 15:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Suzanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm that way with a girl friend of mine right now. Me and her are giving each other the silent treatment. I love her to death but I really am clueless on how to approach it. But in your case, I would suggest talking to her. Just tell her to chill with you one day, maybe the mall or movies. And talk to her about it, if she listens then she still sees you as a friend. If she doesn't hang out with you or doesn't seem to care enough to talk about it, she has moved away from you and doesn't see you as a part of her life. Meaning you also need to forget about her.
I know, its easier said than done. But what choice do you have? Go for it, you don't find friends everyday.
2006-06-08 16:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by R man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends. If you two were really close friends, than you should both be able to admit that you didn't do the right thing in trying to repair your relationship and you should also be able to work out your differences and make fair compromises. If you two were arguing and you weren't really that interested in trying to make it work, than maybe you should just let it go.
2006-06-08 15:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by ashley c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give it another try it depends on how close you are it happend to me with a girl named Alexis. She was a real *****. Now we are friends because we said that we were sorry and we didnt mean it but now we are in a BIG fight to get this hot guy. It is really stupid.Good luck!
2006-06-08 15:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kendall G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, friendship that hurts another person intentionally isn't a friendship, that is anything but. that is a friendship where one person is just out for themselves and everything that they can get for themselves. It is a selfish friendship. It hurts and doesn't do anything but hurt others.
Genuine friendships are where the other person just wants you to be happy no matter what and always wants the very best for you as well.
2006-06-08 15:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-08 15:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by catmanbigwil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you both are a little to blame. If you miss her, forgive , but don't forget. You decide how close the relationship gets. Remember, just because she does something to you, you don't have to get even. That makes you just as bad.
2006-06-08 15:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Miss NancyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmmmmm, I say let it go. Do you really want a friend who would stab you in the back?
Sweetie, that is NOT a true friend - you deserve better.
2006-06-08 15:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can trust that you dont have to watch your back, then I would say yes, but if you have to hang with your friend but keep one eye on her to make sure you dont get a knife in your back, I say whats the point in that. With friends that you have to watch to see if they r going to hurt you, who needs enemies?
2006-06-08 15:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋