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i have2 brothers and 2 sisters,i am male and adopted,i live in pakistan so i have very less rights then the children of usa,uk or europe.my all family members hate me exept my farther,today my brother slap on my face becuse i ask him to give my cell phone,what should i do ????? should i commit sucide,leave home,die,leave home,stay quite and wait for good ness but they may also get more active but if i destroy them i will be them happy?
please help me
2006-06-08 07:51:14 · 14 answers · asked by kavya 2 in Home & Garden ➔ Other - Home & Garden
I was adopted when I was 9 and I had a rough time I always felt like I was an outcast and every day I could come up with a new way to kill myself I even tried too. But by the grace of the Lord he didn't let that happen. So I was patient and waited for the day to leave and I left and I haven't been back since. I am very happy now and have a good family. Just be patient. Besides if your father loves you think how much he will miss you. That is at least one reason to stick around.
2006-06-08 08:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by DeeLicious 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Because some people haven't learned how to deal with everyday problems. And they let those problems pile up they start small. I forgot to call my mom. I have an overdue library book. I forgot to start the diswasher. Then the problems get bigger I cant afford gas. I cant get groceries. Then bigger. I cant pay rent. They're gonna take my car. And My daughter's 3 months pregnant. Its just too much for them and they dont know how to vent it and tell somebody there problems. So they listen to advice that works if done correctly. They take control. But Instead of taking control by getting a second job and getting on welfare. They put a gun to there head and say goodbye to all the bad. without considering the good. Because people are so wrapped up in there own worlds they dont take the time to see if there friends are ok. Because satan tells them there worthless. Because they ignore Jesus.. Because..... They dont talk to somebody. And I really hope nobodys joking on this page cause until you here that someones gonna commit suicide or that they already have. You can not imagine the feeling. it is not a joke.
2016-03-26 22:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all NO don't attempt to kill yourself. From time to time everyone has felt that their life is unbearable and not worth living and surely everyone has felt that nobody loves them. I have a step daughter and I love her as much as my own daughters.The things I love most about her is we are not so much alike that we get on each others nerves. All siblings fight but it doesn't mean that they hate you. I'm sure they wouldn't let anyone else hit you and get away with it, I may fight with my sister but I'm always there for her when she really needs me. Remember your parents had a chance to choose you and if your siblings weren't also adopted your parents had to take what they got. But I'm sure that they love you all equally.
2006-06-08 08:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by hollanduncan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Suicide is not the right way. Tou must get out. Think about it, decide on a place to go where you can find food and shelter, then develope a plan to leave .... probably best not to talk with anyone close to you about this, just disappear one day.
2006-06-22 02:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by missile_lady 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it it's not worth it tell them they need to go to time out
Here's what i do I stay away from my sister and my brother
I stay in my room all day and all night that's how i shut them
out,so you can do the same but make sure that you lock your
bedroom door,and don't say anything to them if they come
knocking on your bedroom door....
2006-06-20 20:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand your condition.Death is no solution.You need a ggod friend to support you.If you are young and can earn your own living then dont be slapped and leave home if you can take care of yourself.
2006-06-08 08:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by uncoolmom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is too precious, set goals to get out of your sitution. Make the best of what you have and live each day to the fullest. once one takes their life they can't change their mind and return. Good luck. Let's hear from you again and again.
2006-06-21 16:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by muskokastan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LISTEN, I DEFINITELY understand your condition.Death is no solution.You need a good friend to support you. Don't do it. You think they you but what will they think of you after? Express you feelings to your family. It will leave them thinking. This is really just a temporary state. They don't hate you. Pray for support. This will really change your feelings. Don't finish you life just because of your assumption that they hate you. You'll be okay just PLEASE don't kill yourself!
2006-06-20 08:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be a coward...u cant take ur life like this....
instead concentrate on urself that how can u become an independent person in ur life so that u can help urself, ur father and the one who loves u....
be a self made man!and life willbe beautiful!
2006-06-08 07:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by gaurav 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really need someone to talk to sucide is never the answer if you need someone to talk to just e mail me
2006-06-19 05:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by Pretty Brown Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋