Ok, say you were in love with someone and you don't have that strong attraction anymore and you want to tell them. You even go as far as to picture your life without them and you can but when you picture them with someone else it bothers you.
2006-06-08 07:05:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because you still love them as an individual, but not romantically. Maybe sexually, it bothers you. You may have been intimate with him and that alone is an attractant, but not the only thing. Most likely, you are sexually attracted to him, but you want more, preferably love that goes beyond sex. This person isn't the one for you, since you are having these feelings. You need to tell him how you feel and see if his thoughts are the same.
2006-06-08 07:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by osubuckeye 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.....1st off what do you think made you loose the love? I think that these signs mean that you need to move on with your life.
You can't imagine the other person because you want them to still luv you. just tell them how you feel, and remember that these feelings will pass & your life will continue.
Good Luck!
2006-06-08 14:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Weasel♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you don't want to be with this person, yet you don't want to see them with someone else..
well, this isn't fair to them, and you don't even like her, so its time to move on. Tell her that things have changed, and that she might be happier if she were with another guy. And of course, you can still remain friends (if you so wish) and keep in touch.
good luck!
2006-06-08 14:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by orange juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it´s not physical attraction any more, but there´s that emotional-spiritual connection still, which is the most important one. Remember that the physical appearance withers, but the spirit doesn´t.
2006-06-08 14:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by goodgirl2484 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honost, you'll both be happier in the end, no one wants to be w/ someone who doesn't want them. And, the sooner the better, b/c it will only get harder
2006-06-08 14:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your feelings have really changed....I felt that once and I told him and we somehow worked it out! I didn't fall outta love with him...I was just having a slight fear of commitment!
2006-06-08 14:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by Seerah327 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just allow yourself to move forward.Throw the damn memories to the thrah can ok?
2006-06-08 14:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by everprecious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let them knwo that you don't want to be with them anymore honesty is the key to everything in llife
2006-06-08 14:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by helen c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him or her that you've change yoru mind/heart. it happens.
2006-06-08 14:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by akipooh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋