If it does im not havin sex
2006-06-08 07:02:58 · 17 answers · asked by Sexy_mami10 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
First, you need to make sure that you are giving your body up to a boy who is really going to stick around. How solid is your relationship? I know it might sound old school, but the fact of the matter is that the only one that ends up getting hurt and losing out is YOU. You are a score to him and he to you is the one that will take something from you that could never be returned. Therefore, make sure that this is the ONE!!!! You choose the LUCKY ONE - the one, and if you are not sure, do not do it... There are many other ways to sexually satisfy your partner which does not include actual penetration. But to your question, does it hurt, yes, but as you know every woman gets over it. But if pain is the reason why you are not having sex, maybe you are not ready...
2006-06-08 07:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt the first time but you realy should wait to have sex until you are married. There are so many things that could happen your first time. You could get Pregnant or get a disease and do you reall want to give all of yourself to someone your not even sure you'll spend the rest of your life with? God gave us sex as a gift but only to be opened as a wedding gift.
2006-06-08 07:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are it'll hurt your first time, but it doesn't for everyone (depends on if you have a hymen). If you're unsure about having sex, don't. If you're worrying about how much pain you'll be in, you're probably not ready. But don't let someone pressure into doing something you're only half sure about. While it's not that big of a deal to many people, it may be to you. You're best bet is to talk to him about it. There are alternatives, or maybe he can just learn to wait. If not, he's may not be the one for you.
If you do decide to take that step, please be sure to use protection.
2006-06-08 09:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by more1397 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with quite a few virgins and it has always hurt. I would suspect it didn't hurt the previous girl because she was already loose or her man was tiny.
To sum up, the majority of the time it will hurt. Think of putting a hotdog in a key hole and that should be your answer.
2006-06-08 08:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by kubuckioriginal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does hurt at first, you definaltely sound unsure so i would definaltely reccomend waiting. Believe me you will regret it later if you made a choice to give up something so special to the wrong person. If the guy is pressuring you i would definately wait! If a guy cannot wait for you then apparently he does not respect your choices in life.Maybe you could talk to your mom or a close aunt that would probly help.
2006-06-08 07:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by danielle s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It didnt hurt me when my fiance and i made love. Then again we were both really relaxed and actually in a really good mood and kinda joking a lot because somethings went a little odd, but yeah he took it real slow and gentle for me. You can feel it streach but it dont hurt
2006-06-08 08:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts the first few times! If you are unsure that you want to have sex, don't!
2006-06-08 07:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its may hurt it may not.. u have to be completly relaxed when you have sex.... make sure u do lots of foreplay otherwise it will hurt... u may also bleed the first time you may not....
ur not gonna kno if its gonna hurt u or not until u do it.. if u try it and it starts to hurt u can always stop.
2006-06-08 07:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by pretty_pink_gal2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLLLLLL YEAAAAAA, and givin birth hurts even more. im 15 and lost my virginity a while ago, and yea it def hurts. and im now pregnant, so my advice to you is dont do it. but good luck 2 ya
2006-06-08 09:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it hurts ut make sure you r ready. Use a condom for everything you do when u have sex.
p.s let him be on top it hurts less.
2006-06-08 07:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋