I have no confidence and no self essteem so how can i raise it... i have tried everything and i think that is why i'm not getting a guy
2006-06-08 06:58:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I understand. Talking to the mirror does not help.
Sweetie, confidence and self-esteem come from within. Something that really helps is having great, positive thoughts because then thoughts turn into words which turn into actions.
Having uplifting thoughts (I´m beautiful, I´m smart, I can accomplish anything I put my mind to, etc) will make you believe them. But don´t just think them, SAY them too. And soon enough you´ll start believing in yourself. Good luck!!
P.S. For right now, don´t worry about guys. Worry about yourself first. Help YOURSELF first and the rest will follow. :)
2006-06-08 07:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by goodgirl2484 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confidence comes out of realization of one's own capabilities, potentials.
every human has some capabilities. First sit alone and think for your self and try to find out your own achievements, how ever small they may be, - every human has some achievements, good memories to look back- those are your achievements in life . They are your own and precious . None did for u - they are ur own . - achieved them. Dont try to compare your self with others - many may be acting in life for others - be your self - however stupid we may be- by committing mistakes we learn many things in life-all those gives us valuable experiences- from those experiences we build our confidences...dont try to be like someone else - u can be never like someone else... be ur self.. try to think like that.. try to bulid ur confidences step by step ..
2006-06-08 14:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by vision1075 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting involved in a couple of social groups, like at the museum or church or something
2006-06-08 14:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all don't think that way.. say to your self u have class and your pretty , cause if u don't know it or think it u wont fell that way.. try new things like goin to the gym, make-up.. the key is knowing your hot and that's it.. hope it works for u...
2006-06-08 14:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by shorty21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It take time for every thing.
2006-06-08 14:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋