Am i a lesbo?

Question

Ok here is the story. I have a small atraction to girls but i have a boyfriend. And i have not toled him about this yet. I don't know what i am any more. I found out that i liked girls not that long ago. But i didn't think it was that big of a deal, and just thought it was a fas. Soon after i found my self likeing my bestfriend. But i have a loveing boyfriend. While i was still with my boyfriend i found myself wnting to be more with my bestfriend then my boyfriend. I don't want to be a lesbo or find out i am one. but i do what someone to help me out and tell me what i am and what i should do. It would be a great help. I like girls but i also like boys. Please help. Thanks.

~lil J~

Answer 1

You just said it yourself.You like guys and girls. for right now just call it bi curious.

Answer 2

Maybe what you feel for other girls is ADMIRATION. A lot of it can be misread as LIKING, but it may not be it at all. I admire a lot of women for different reasons - some have gorgeous hair, some have a lot of drive, some balance work and family - but it doesn´t mean I LOVE them or LIKE them in a sexual way. That´s just natural.

Now, if you feel you have sexual feeling towards them or you feel totally confused, go to a therapist or a counseling center. There´s so much help out there nowadays, it´s such a great advantage. And good luck to ya!

Answer 3

Well if i was you i would first tell your boyfriend, because i suspect this might make him very happy, lol. Tell him your just curious and want to try it. After he agrees with it, as any guy i know would, then you need to try on somone else not your friend. no need to scare her off, but after u have decided definitely that you really like this, then i would approach your friend carefully, cuz if it goes wrong things might never be the same again betweeen you two. And, if all goes well, dont forget your loving boyfriend who helped you through this, cuz im sure he would love a threesome. lol

Answer 4

I know how u feel. I've had the same problem. For me I just thought about what I wanted most. And for me it was to have a family. I know you can if your a lesbo too but I like to have sex w/ guys too. Can you see yourself having sex w/ a girl? Maybe you try being with a girl and see how that goes.

Answer 5

So, you're "Bi". Big deal. Many women are Bi. I have been since I was VERY young. What the hell are you afraid of anyway? I say do it at least once. Then you will know for sure how you truly feel. To be honest, I think that it's a wonderful experience.

Answer 6

Sleep with a girl then. See how you like it but I would advise against the best friend, mite scare her off. Or why don't you try a three-way with your boyfriend, he would prolly love that and you go down on a girl (ewww) once I am sure you will have your answer. Did ya like it or was it the grossest thing ever?!?!?!
Easy, thanks for the points.

Good luck tho

Answer 7

You're most likely bi, although you could be in denial about being lesbian, so you try to make yourself see that you still like guys and you really don't like them like you think you do. Give it more time and be open to what you are feeling you will find out for yourself.

Answer 8

so your a bi.... big deal! Do you think that is a problem? Me personally I am not attracted to woman at all! I am a all man type of girl! But power to yah sista!

Answer 9

Bi is great. If you tell your boyfriend I'm sure he'll be happy with inviting your best friend into bed.

Answer 10

Well, there is your answer your not a lesbian...Your are Bi-sexual. No big deal, its common. I think most women find themselves attracted to women. Curiosity!!

Answer 11

What is wrong with liking everybody? Express yourself. When you do not express what you feel, that is when you are in danger of true confusion. Try it, like it, or decide that you do not like it. Either way, live YOUR life, not someone else's...