2006-06-08 06:10:42 · 12 answers · asked by LovelyTracy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well I understand what you are going thur I'm going thur the same thing but I just pray about it and leave it in Gods hand because what ever God has for you it is for you son if he is for you God will work it out and let him work it out .
2006-06-08 06:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Natasha D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're "in-love" with a man that hurts you?
If this is true what you can do is get therapy, and find out why you care about an abuser of any name?
If you were abused as a child, does not mean you have to chose an abuser for a life-mate.
Get help.
And get away from this man, even if it hurts your heart. Better a hurt heart than a hurt baby, or having the hurt continue.
He won't stop, even when he promises. Stop this cycle.
Run away as fast as you can.
I wish you TENDER love
STW
2006-06-08 13:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny make sure that he wants to be with you and everything like that because i have a baby out of wed lock and my babies dad chose drugs and drinking over us and we were going to get married but i knew it was a bad thing so hunny i would not go back to him from my experience because it hurts when he keeps promoiseing you the world and that he will never hurtbut he always does so hunny i would not go back to him if i can make it by myself and i am only 18 with an almost 2yr old then you can make it by yourself ok?!?!? If you ever wanna chat you can email me at: lil_sis35586@yahoo.com!!
2006-06-08 13:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some counseling. The fear that he has not changed has not altered your desire. You can not be a co-dependent. Your child needs to see a better example of what people can be and you must provide a stable environment. Let someone help you learn what to do.
2006-06-08 13:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by the Goddess Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hurt you before, why would you want to take the chance of getting hurt again?
2006-06-08 13:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my grandmother used to always say "when in doubt, dont do it"
You should not have to be scared of the one you are in love with.
If you are afraid, then you have a doubt .....a doubt that he might not change. I say dont fall into it . you can still love him for the fact that you have a child together, but you do not have to settle for pain.
2006-06-08 13:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by christina m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him then give him second chance besides hes the father of your baby.
2006-06-08 13:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by carl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hurt you once, 99.9% chance he will hurt you again and maybe your baby too. Stay away from him.
2006-06-08 13:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by T2Step 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hurt you the first time, he'll do it again? Don't trust him because he hurt you. You can forgive him but don't chase him or fool youself into loving him again, because if he treated you bad before or he hurt you before your really huirting yourself if trust him again.
2006-06-08 13:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by booboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't -- he hurt you? Let it go - give it time and move on. You'll fall in love again.
2006-06-08 13:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋