2006-06-08 05:40:54 · 18 answers · asked by Cristy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I think it's a matter of perspective. Many women out there who don't want children don't have them.
I had trouble trying to conceive, so I feel your pain. It does seem unfair, but biology doesn't discriminate (although if evolution was so danged successful, you'd think that maternal instinct would be a requirement for pregnancy, right?).
Best of luck to you - just remember, even if you don't get pregnant, you can have a child. There are so many out there that need homes. It is possible to fall in love with a baby that's not yours by blood. And don't get discouraged, either...I had my first at 36, my second at 39. Good luck.
2006-06-08 05:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by tagi_65 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and I'm having the same problem that I can't get pregnant so now I have to start all this treatment. I say the same thing too. Unfortunately there is no real answer to that but that the lord works in mysterious way. Have faith and be patience and I know it will would be wonderful to have your own kids. Maybe you and I are destine to adopt children who's parent abandon then or that could kept them for whatever reasons. Maybe that's what's in store for those who can't have child. Think about adoption as the last resort they too want a home and to be loved too.
2006-06-08 09:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU TELL ME.... Fertility shots for 2 years. With 3 cousins who are due in about a month.. all at the same time... ALL on accident..
Oh.. and the good things come to good people is a comment from an idiot.
Good & Bad things... happen to everyone...
THAT is the real truth
2006-06-08 05:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we all need trials in our lives, people that dont want kids and get kids has the trial of having them. Good couples that are trying and can not get pregnant has the trial of not having them. It is all about trials and how we manage them. Trials make you stronger. I am sure that every thing will work out in the end.
2006-06-08 07:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just smth that has to do with faith...it's part of everyone destiny..for u trying to have a child might be a milestone, for others the milestone might be an unwanted baby..as sad as it sounds...
a relative of mine recently adopted a baby girl and actually saved her from a poor life full of deprivations...so it all makes sense when u think of it at a large scale..
2006-06-08 05:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Andr33a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i concur, i personally think that there should be an application process for kids, like you have marrige and driver licences
but no baby llicence? i know they'd deny me. lol jkjkjk
what gets me is that there is an adoption process and thats
fine, you shouldnt be able to just shove kids off to anybody who asks for one, however, the process is quite difficult, and good people have to wait like, YEARS sometimes, mean while
mr and mrs trashy can just squeeze one out every nine months
noone questions how THEIR households are.
ugh
2006-06-08 07:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the stress of trying to hard impedes fertility.
2006-06-08 05:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by kaplah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That goes back to well so many people have alot of money and they dont even deserve it lifes a *****.
2006-06-08 05:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by lovlisuzy51880 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if it just seems that way to you because you are trying to have a child. Good things come to good people.
2006-06-08 05:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by Leader Lady Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems unfair doesn't it??
The best thing you can do is plan, and map your ovulation!
Also remember, more sex is not actually the best way to conceive... its all about timing!
Good luck!
My husband always says "when God thinks we can handle it, he'll give us another child"
2006-06-08 05:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by aprilsastar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋