2006-06-08 05:39:26 · 16 answers · asked by Kelli A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it's ok to say that. That is what I said when my ex asked me for a divorce. I told everyone that would listen that I would never, ever, ever marry again! Of course that was before I knew that the most incredible lady would come into my life. Saturday I will have been married 11 years to her and plan on staying married to her for at least a thousand lifetimes!
Good luck and I hope that someday you find the same happiness that I have.
2006-06-08 06:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you recently went through this divorce, then of course you will say that you do not want to be married again. Give it time, it does hurt and it will hurt for a while. There will be days that you remember all the good times and then days that you remember the bad. This is normal. A woman without a heart is unheard of. All women want to love someone, all women want to be loved. You will give your love again some day, just take your time. Love will find you. Just remember, dont settle. Dont think or want to love someone because you are alone. Someday out of the blue, the right guy will be there . He was probably there all the time. You just needed that time to reflect.
Wishing you a good life.
2006-06-09 12:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by mailbox1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! I am 28 yrs old and I went thru one like 5 yrs ago, and I got married again. I'm so HAPPY!! I just married the wrong person. Probably it happened the same thing to you. You will see... you will find someone one day that completes you.
2006-06-08 06:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's OK. I said it for many years. Then I met my current wife. We've been together for nine years now. It's definitely better the second time around. The key is to learn from the first time and NEVER settle for less than you want or deserve.
Good luck.
2006-06-08 05:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by michael s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never is a loooooooooooooong time. Nothing is absolute but waiting and doing things for yourself and to grow as a person be it emotionally mentally or spiritually is a good idea, whether you are married or not.
I wish I would of waited longer before I remarried, sigh, maybe things would of been different?
Be kind to yourself, as sometimes you are all you got!
2006-06-08 07:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by flyingdove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never say never. You feel that way now, due to what you've been through. In time you may meet a great person and can't wait to get married again.
2006-06-08 06:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ugliness of the divorce doesn't matter, it is the reason for your divorce that should dtermine if you ever want to marry again. It took two of you to tangle over the divorce.
2006-06-08 05:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by choppercam1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is okay and normal to say so but you may just find a nice guy again someday who you will love and get married again so never say never!
2006-06-08 05:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say allot of things but as Pearl Jam said "Hearts and Thoughts They Fade". Your broken heart will mend and someday you may find another that will be worth the risk, so never say never!
2006-06-08 05:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by tonafun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not only OK, but Its a good plan, marriage is the biggest cause od divorce
2006-06-08 05:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by polockpete40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋